Maybe he is gay? Or afraid of being seen as gay?
If i knew him i’d slap the shid out of him. I seriously despise that attitude with every fiber of my being. This has nothing to do with me: I have come to terms with my sexuality and I am very confident in it. For the record, I’m bisexual.
I have a lot of friends who are gay. And honestly, I love them to bits. To see them getting abused most of the time (my country, Malta is extremely close minded and traditionally christian and most people older then my generation still think it’s a sin) at work, socially… etc. And it drives me insane. This was a rant on my part xD
yes lets all rant about close minded peoplel. well we have a long distance relationship so i cant slap him but if he was here. id slap the crap out of him. no hes not gay. hes iranian. im hispanic. he says in his culture its horrible to agree with the sexuality of gay people. im catholic and catholics hate gays. that doesnt mean i think that same way.
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yes lets all rant about close minded peoplel. well we have a long distance relationship so i cant slap him but if he was here. id slap the crap out of him. no hes not gay. hes iranian. im hispanic. he says in his culture its horrible to agree with the sexuality of gay people. im catholic and catholics hate gays. that doesnt mean i think that same way.
Iranian. Lol. No wonder he hates them. So do Catholics, whether you like it or not. The difference is, if he believes differently his family and peers will deject him and make his life a pain. In your case this is probably not going to happen to this large of an extent.
well im not religious so even if they do hate me, i dont give a damm. catholics are hypocrites. and everyone who is religious and discriminates gays are hypocrites. they think they are being “good” and following god when they are conciously discrimiinating against a minority. God is supposed to love all his children but people are too stupid to get that. god im mad.
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1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)
I come from a middle eastern culture, lived in a gay relationship for 3 years and identify as bisexual. the main problem is fear and ignorance. Most people in his culture, including him don’t have personal relationships with anyone gay so they don’t see them as real people with normal everyday lives and problems, plus the added problem of being gay in a largely straight world. I do not want to slap him or hurt him but pray one day that he finds compassion for all human beings and all their differences and that maybe he understands we are just people, just like him.
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I come from a middle eastern culture, lived in a gay relationship for 3 years and identify as bisexual. the main problem is fear and ignorance. Most people in his culture, including him don’t have personal relationships with anyone gay so they don’t see them as real people with normal everyday lives and problems, plus the added problem of being gay in a largely straight world. I do not want to slap him or hurt him but pray one day that he finds compassion for all human beings and all their differences and that maybe he understands we are just people, just like him.
you’re a better person then i am xD
thanks darkscorpia. i’m sure you’re a good person :-D
Thanks xD I hope this guy opens his mind a little. Still wanna slap him tho, maybe it’ll help xD
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Thanks xD I hope this guy opens his mind a little. Still wanna slap him tho, maybe it’ll help xD
lol i still want to slap my bf too. one day i SHALL do it! lol. and their president believes the same thing that he does. also that the holocaust was a myth and i just found out he believes that too. my bf doesnt need praying. he needs a couple slaps in the face to understand.
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darkscorpia wrote:
Thanks xD I hope this guy opens his mind a little. Still wanna slap him tho, maybe it’ll help xD
lol i still want to slap my bf too. one day i SHALL do it! lol. and their president believes the same thing that he does. also that the holocaust was a myth and i just found out he believes that too. my bf doesnt need praying. he needs a couple slaps in the face to understand.
If you want company in slapping him send me a shout xD I wonder what the relatives of all those people that died in the holocaust have to say about it, that it was a myth. =(
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lexihope wrote:
darkscorpia wrote:
Thanks xD I hope this guy opens his mind a little. Still wanna slap him tho, maybe it’ll help xD
lol i still want to slap my bf too. one day i SHALL do it! lol. and their president believes the same thing that he does. also that the holocaust was a myth and i just found out he believes that too. my bf doesnt need praying. he needs a couple slaps in the face to understand.
If you want company in slapping him send me a shout xD I wonder what the relatives of all those people that died in the holocaust have to say about it, that it was a myth. =(
lol ill send u the shout when i get my hands on that pretty face of his lmao. XD i know. he says that eventually i will open my eyes to the truth and that the holocaust was just an act. that pisses me off so bad because he hates jewish people. idk why. prob has to do with the holocuast. i try to get some sense into him but it doesnt work.
As much as i hate to admit it, everyone has their own culture, and slapping won’t do much D: It’s the way he was brought up, and he thinks he is right and everyone else is wrong just like we think we’re right and he is wrong. If you notice, terrorists, criminals (I’m not saying he is one, i’m just giving an example) they rarely ever know that what they are doing is wrong, they think they’re making the world a better place. I doubt anyone can change your boyfriend’s mind.
i totally agree with u. i just wish i could. hes so narrow minded. and he got pissed at me cuz i told him i hope that when u have a kid, hes gay so he can teach u a lesson XD it was funny tho. he was so offended. darn. but the slapping would b fun :D
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1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)
Leave him. When you truly care for someone you won’t call them stupid or say you want to kill them. I imagine he likes to get you angry about this topic. Leave him before it gets worse for you both, and hopefully he will mature in his thinking someday.
its okay. i gave up trying to change his mind. im not gonna leave him. i love him and i guess we all think differently. i cant change his way of thinking no matter how much i wish i could. we’ve been calling each other stupid for like 9 months. lol itll be fine. i dont take it offensively neither does he.
yes he seems very immature. I don’t think theres probably alot you can do. Its up to him what he believes. My boyfriend’s dad is racist. His wife doesn’t like it and she’s always telling him off about it, but it doesnt make him change.
agreed. it does not change them.
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2 weeks, 6 days ago (1 month, 1 week after post)
Maybe have him watch the movie Boys Don’t Cry…? I know it sounds hokey but some people do seem to respond to really moving movies that are about prejudice. I know it won’t “change” him, but something like that might get him thinking, and that’s a start. But at the very least, you could tell him how that kind of talk makes YOU feel. If you tell him that you find it disrespectful and upsetting, and that you would appreciate it if he just wouldn’t say those things around you, then at least you wouldn’t have to hear about it. If he doesn’t respect your wishes, it just kinda goes to show what kind of person he is.
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