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Hi guys i need some help-advice?

Lately i been wanting nothing to do with the outside world including my family-friends. Ive been having alot of hard times the past 6months with certain things now i just dont want to be around noone.Besides my Mom & Dad..I have severve anxiety & i think depression now because all i do is cry,i feel lost anymore. I was so use to going out and partying all the time with friends but realized them friends werent good for me,and got rid of them.So now since ive had a clear head for about 4months now it seems like reality is knocking on my door and i want nothing to do with it.I pretty much lack interest in alot of things now,and i dont know where my life is going or what kind of people i want to surround myself with now.Im ashamed of alot of things i did in my past.Im just so confused anymore.Does ANYONE have any advice? Or any medicine recommendations? Thanks!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (48 minutes after post)

i don’t know what you did in the past, but it’s natural to feel guilty about past wrongs. the important thing is that you need to move on. as you said, you’re a different person now. after a change like that it’s natural not to know what you want or who you want to be with. try taking baby steps, getting out of the house a little bit each day. meet new people but feel free to be a little choosey about who you hang out with. no one on this site should be recommending medicines if by medicines you mean prescriptions. if you can, see if you can get some outside help like a counselor or psychiatrist. if one of them thinks you really need it, they can help get you medicine, if not they will still help you in getting better. just out of curiosity, how old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

throw away what ever u did,it’s not important now since u can’t do anything 4 that…about medicine as u mentioned see a psychiatrist he will probably put u in a anti-depression course…and after a while u can be on ur own feet :)

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2 months ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

Hey Thanks for the advice guys…i am 23..its hard right now, i feel like i just want to move away from here and run from it all. But i know in life you are suppose to face your problems head on to become a stronger person,but its just like i want out…Im scared of running into people from my past because of my severve anxiety i dont know how i will act,and the friends that i surrounded myself with for about 5 years and hung out with them mostly everyday were manipulators and i didnt even realize it until the end.It seemed like they just wanted to keep me around because i had the money and the car and i knew alot of people to go out and party with and i was always on the go..But im away from that now because i got sick of it.They wanted me on their level they didnt want me to succeed with things,and everytime i wanted to go and hang out with someone else they always wanted to be there and always wonder what i was doing,and would get mad if i wasnt with them.So i just got sick of it and stopped hanging with them.Now all i do it stay in because im lost anymore and reality finally kicked in because i have a straight head for once…SORRY i typed so much But thank you for the replys!!

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