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i am a 25 year old gal…

i got this problem of being not able to put my focus at one work…i need to keep myself drifting off here and there wandering around with my active imaginations.i am mentally unstable and this has led me to physical mobility for no reason..as in i cant arrest myself to one place for long. i end up with a big egg on my face when people catch me smiling for no reason.smiling would be a worng word but i laugh..lolzzz i end up making stories to pull off a genuine justification for myself as in why i was laughing …may be i am slghtly schizophrenic as well ;)…..i am wasting around a lot of time and messing up my life and relationships because of my instability………i have edged into the phase of life where i am going thru harsh rejections sometimes at the cost of my family selfrespect at stake.having said that i am not scared of rejections…somewhere deep down the line i beleive i am depriving myself from enjoying the positiveness of my self… i am not able to organise things well.. i am not able to give my 100% attention on anything and i am not at peace inside head …like i am constantly battling out something or clinging on something …i can see it very clearly i am draining out too much of energy for the result i want.. so my hard work is not being paid off… i beleive having the focus and the 100% attention and the composed nature leads to result at the cost of giving out the energy that is required to get it..thats like a perfect deal

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vivzofwale offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

what’s your basis for saying you’re mentally unstable? have you been to a doctor yet?

i’m sorry but this is the first time i saw someone write that she’s schizophrenic then add a smiling/winking face. because you know, schizophrenia (and other similar illnesses) is really no laughing/smiling matter. so i wonder how serious you are about you being mentally unstable.

now about attention and focus. this problems also haunted me throughout my life. i just can’t seem to sit down and do one thing even for thirty minutes. as a result, i suffered from terrible grades. but when i took my masters i found a way to circumvent this. and that is, to DO MANY THINGS AT THE SAME TIME. so example if i have a paper to make and i need to make a powerpoint presentation for something else, i just do them at the same time. maybe 15 minutes each until both are finished. that way i need not focus on one thing. having a lot of extracurricular activities help as well.

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