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I’m 22 years old, and i hate my mom so much.

Do you think it’s wrong for me to hate my mom?
my mom wouldn’t let me do anything i want, she doesn’t even let me sleep over in my best friend’s house.
she wants to controlling me, when i was 17 she would hit me if i don’t want to wear the dress that she bought.
when i dont wanna do what she said, she could call my boyfriend for like 3 hours, telling me how bad i am.
i just cant stand her anymore. please help me

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 102 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Ok that really is a bit extreme, especially for your age. Why don’t you move out?

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Her behavior is liable to worsen and therefore it will only cause your hate to build even more. One of two things must happen here. Either your mother should seek psychiatric consultation for the way she is, or you should think about finding somewhere else to stay. And I don’t see the first one happening at all.

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yessica41 offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

You are 22 years old. She is paying the bills and supporting you. As long as you are living in her house you have to follow her rules. If you don’t like her rules, get a job, support yourself and move out.

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mykidsmom offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 month after post)

I don’t want to sound mean, but does your mom have some psychological issues? At 22 yrs old, you should have more freedom to go and do what you want to but within reason - you are living in her house. You need to make nice or move out. But, she is your mom - once you are out of the house maybe the two of you could develop a better relationship.

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