marriage help: Regarding my last post(I’m very lost and hurt)If anyone else has anything that can help me ease the pain it would be greatly appreciated. - Help.com

branch out! find new guys! talk to anyone you see, just for the he11 of it. Whats the worst that can happen, they say, “go away”. You will be suprised how much fun it is to interact with starngers and meet new people that way

I am so sorry to hear that. My mom went through that only she had two kids when he left and only a van and no place to live. She made it through ok. You can too.

Get a hobby. Then join a group of people with the same interests. You’ll pass the time, and find new friends in no time. Adopt a pet, too. Having a companion to love and care for will make you sooo much happier. :)

there is alot of groups for people like you, you could look one up and talk to people who are going through the same thing as you. im very sorry to hear this though and of course ill be praying for you. hang in there hun :)

Try taling up a new hobby or spot that you do with others

In some small measure I understand how you feel. My wife also left me to an empty house (she also took the dogs!). I had also up-rooted (this was a few years ago) and committed all I had to a life here. I am now a stranger in a strange land and know no one outside work. One difference is that I have to take some of the blame, but in your case you been cruelly treated and he has betrayed all trust. You will suffer and it will be relentless. Give it time and although the hurt will linger the beginnings of what to do with your life will start to take shape little by little. If you feel deep down however that there is still something left to recover then I suggest a cooling-off period.