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My Confessions.

You’re probably not interested, but I felt like confessing somethings, nothing major … well, I guess not. :) Feel free to confess yourself as a reply, or not … enjoy my confessions!

* I like to look at all the girls on http://community.livejournal.com/ever... and steal all of their fashion ideas, but I’ve never introduced myself.

* I have awful teeth, and I lie about them all the time. :|

* I really like Daf, I want to marry him. No joke. I think he’s the cutest guy in the world & if I could wake up every day & for him to be there, then I’d be in heaven. :D

* I don’t think my mother likes my friends, because she’s always saying things like ‘oh, you can speak to your old friends from your old school now you’re at college’ & whenever I mention my friends she says things like, ‘oh, of course, how interesting o.o’.

* I think my family & my friends think I’m either bisexual or gay because I always kiss my female friends on the cheeks but I never kiss my guy friends on the cheek because I’m too scared to. >__< & I rarely have boyfriends because most guys think I'm gay/bi & I look up to people like Dita von Teese - her confidence not her body.

* I bite my nails.

* I spend far too much time on www.kupika.net even though I never visit www.kupika.com anymore. @__@ Maybe I should, but I really can’t be bothered to reply, so I think I’ll stick to the forum.

* I never write down my homework from college, so I end up facebooking people at 2am & asking about the homework.

* When I was around 9 an older guy made me … do stuff. :| Not sex, just stuff. Then when I was 13/14 there was a guy on the internet who also made me do stuff, & I nearly agreed to meet him, since then I’ve been scared of getting to deeply involved with a guy.

* Sometimes I wish I was a guy.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Well, now that you got all this off your chest, what’s next for you?

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Darkness (and stars) offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Do YOU think that you are gay or bi?
Just you mention it a lot
(Its not a bad thing you know :P )

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elatenradiate offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

It seems that you’re afraid of forming a relationship with a guy, and you expressed some past experiences that affect your view of men.
Seeing a psychologist or counsellor may help you. If you are attending a college at the moment, there may be a counselling and health centre where you can find some resources.
If you are unsure of whether you are attracted to women or men, or both, it is okay to be in the process of self-discovery.

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Darkness (and stars) offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

elatenradiate wrote:
It seems that you’re afraid of forming a relationship with a guy, and you expressed some past experiences that affect your view of men.
Seeing a psychologist or counsellor may help you. If you are attending a college at the moment, there may be a counselling and health centre where you can find some resources.
If you are unsure of whether you are attracted to women or men, or both, it is okay to be in the process of self-discovery.

She didnt say she was confused about her sexuality, she only mentioned the way other people viewed it.
And I think that a psychologist is a bit OTT
There’s nothing wrong with you anon :) You’re fine

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pika offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Well, now that you got all this off your chest, what’s next for you?

I’m off to a part time job interview, thanks. :)

darkness_and_stars wrote:
Do YOU think that you are gay or bi?
Just you mention it a lot
(Its not a bad thing you know :P )

Erm… no? Aha, I’m straight, I know I’m straight, I just play around. Wait, that sounds bad, but I’ll just kiss girls on the cheek & stroke them, to me it means nothing, just a joke. But to others they’ll think I’m serious. :|

elatenradiate wrote:
It seems that you’re afraid of forming a relationship with a guy, and you expressed some past experiences that affect your view of men.
Seeing a psychologist or counsellor may help you. If you are attending a college at the moment, there may be a counselling and health centre where you can find some resources.
If you are unsure of whether you are attracted to women or men, or both, it is okay to be in the process of self-discovery.

I’ve been to a counsellor. >__ They told me there’s nothing, just normal teenage stuff really… it’s not like I’m scared of men, I just don’t like relationships in general. I don’t even like saying someone is my friend because it’s a relationship, I’m just one of those people that others describe as ‘free-spirited’ apprently. XD

darkness_and_stars wrote:

elatenradiate wrote:
It seems that you’re afraid of forming a relationship with a guy, and you expressed some past experiences that affect your view of men.
Seeing a psychologist or counsellor may help you. If you are attending a college at the moment, there may be a counselling and health centre where you can find some resources.
If you are unsure of whether you are attracted to women or men, or both, it is okay to be in the process of self-discovery.

She didnt say she was confused about her sexuality, she only mentioned the way other people viewed it.
And I think that a psychologist is a bit OTT
There’s nothing wrong with you anon :) You’re fine

Aha, why thank you. :)

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pika offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Aha, forgot to press Anon, oh well. :) Tbh I don’t actually know why I did this Anon in the first place. XD

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elatenradiate offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

So your preference is to not become too attached to people. It’s perfectly fine to have your own preferences. If you feel like something is holding you back, or if there is something you want help with, let us know.

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confusedgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Ok, my confession…I’m in love with someone that treats me like I mean nothing.

Phew, that feels better :S

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elatenradiate offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 28 minutes after post)

So you feel undervalued around this person, yet infatuated with them at the same time.
What would you like in a relationship with someone?

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confusedgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Yeah, i suppose you could put it that way…I would just like to feel like I mean something to him if nothing else - that would make me feel a little happy.

I’m not sure what I’d like in an ideal relationship - just to be happy i guess.

Anyone else have a confession??

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