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I think my mom hates me.

Ever since I entered high school, I’m in tenth grade now, she won’t stop yelling at me for no good reasons. When she wants me to do homework, instead of saying “Zach, do your homework” it’s “Zach! That homework better be done or you’ll be sorry Dude!” I don’t know what I’ve done but she just won’t stop being so cruel to me all the time. She never yells at my brother or sister. I really think she hates me…

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Keckers offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Urhh….she’s yelling at you..so you could do your work..because she cares about you ,your marks, and your future.

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kingelectrica offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

She doesn’t hate you mate! She is just pushing you too your fullest potential.She loves you and is trying to use some cruel love.

Listen to her, its in your best interests.

Good Luck

Dishy

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sk8rdemo offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

The school work was just an example, she yells for much stupider reasons

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

are you the oldest, the youngest?

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sk8rdemo offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

youngest

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Ah.. well, it could be a classic case of “done this twice now, tried X with no.1, tried Y with no. 2.. “ok kid no.3.. GO DO YOUR HOMEWORK” Trouble is, when the third kid comes along we don’t always handle things so well as we should simply because we are so busy and stressed out with keeping the household ticking over!

Your mum does not hate you. If she did she wouldn’t care if you didn’t get your homework done and would leave you to your own devices. She wants you to do well, like kingelectrica says.

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Parents are going to always be the enforcers of homework. They want their kids to do good in secondary school so that they will try to be successful in college, and thereafter.

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kingelectrica offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Mate if she feeds u, and makes sure your clothes are clean. She is your mum and wot ever preasures on on her, she loves you. You are worried about something that has changed, you need to list the changes to get an answer, ok.

Dishy out

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

If she’s yelling about other stuff too, then find a quiet time to approach her and ask her if everything is ok. Maybe she is stressed about something? Maybe she is struggling to cope?

Could also be that she doesn’t know the best way to handle your individuality. Perhaps you behave in different ways to your brother and sister? If that’s the case, then if you think about it.. she knew what to do with no.1 because she had lots of advice. No. 2 behaved the same as no. 1 so that was easy enough to handle. Suddenly no. 3 is a whole new experience and she doesn’t know what to do!

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granola_eate offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I would agree with everyone that your mom does not hate you. She just loves you. You said you were in 10th grade now, so maybe she wants you to start taking on more responsiblity but is unshure how to handle that, since you are her youngest. I know from experience parents are either really burned out and tired in parenting when it comes to their youngest or they are used to babying the youngest and don’t want to “hurt” their “baby” but feel like they need to say something. I suggest talking to your mom and telling her that you feel like she has been a little harsh on you lately and ask her why the change. Just make sure you really listen to her answer. Whatever you do, be calm. You don’t want things to escalate.

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kingelectrica offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Love ur mum mate, hope everything goes good for your family.

Dishy x

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brooke_hatfiel offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

I’m really sorry sweetie. My mother has done the same thing to me, only worse. She really hates me, and I had to get over it and move on with my life. She told me that I was a mistake, that She wanted me out, to pack my bags and leave, that I am not child of hers. She’s accused me of imaginable things. She said I wouldn’t go anywhere in life, that I’m a lost cause, that I’d be too afraid to move out and live somewhere else. Here I am 6 months later, living a happy healthy life with my father, going to high school and attending three college classes. You have to hold on to your faith with everything you have. If you need to talk it out, I’m here for you.

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