crush help: i like this guy but i only see him once a week and i have never

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i like this guy but i only see him once a week and

i have never actually talked to him only on msn because my friend used to like him so i added him on msn it feels so much easier and i have learnt so much about him and then i found myself liking him he knows who i am so that’s good i guess. im really nervous to go up to him to say hi because he hangs out with a big group of friends and i feel embarrassed. my friends think that he likes me but i cant be sure what should i do? he is really a sweet guy.

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suki_sas 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Well since you have his addy you should continue to talk to him over MSN. Really get to know him you know. I’m sure he likes you. Depends on him as well, if he is a bit of a deep guy you can really entend the conversation but if he’s kinda not and runs out of convo in 2 secs then ask about fav bands and such. Not that hard. Plus you avoid major embarrassment because he wouldn’t be able to see you blush and such.

linda.mind 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

i have been talking to him quite a lot acctually
the problem is he always takes a while to reply
but recently the answers are getting quicker which is good

burke77t 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Ask him for a private word and say “I like you and I wonder if you’d like to go out some time, it’s OK if you say No, I won’t bite you”

Life is just too short for us to watch chances at happiness slip by because we’re afraid of a response that we may never get. What have you got to lose?

linda.mind 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

one of the problems is that he lives quite far away
and i only see him once a week
and he is kind of the shy type and i would hate to freak them out

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Why rush it?

Smile at him. Enjoy it when his friends tease him about it. Have fun.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Ok so because he is shy perhaps he is deep. Push the conversation to really deep places if you can. If you see him once a week you can like ask to borrow dvds or books over msn and then collect it on that day. Or simply just stray away from the group and go for a walk or something.

linda.mind 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

maybe i will go and ask him to borrow something
i just need to figure out what to ask for

jorijntje 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (44 minutes after post)

a cd of his favorite band?

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linda.mind 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (45 minutes after post)

hmm maybe i’ll just ask him what bands he likes first

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