So I just found out my x broke up with the girlfriend he had

coffee.obses

So I just found out my x broke up with the girlfriend

he had right before me because he freaked out one night threw her against the wall then punched her in the face.

The weird thing is we both had exactly the same experience with him, bar him attacking her I mean.
You see we both went out with him for around five months and we both had been best friends before going out with him. We both really liked him the first few weeks then noticed him get extremely weird and we both then spent the next four months trying to break up with him!
Ya see he really did make your life miserable, he clung to you all the time and I mean literally like he’d cling to your waist like a monkey and if you asked him to stop he wouldn’t talk to you for hours. He was jealous of any guy you talked to and once the first few weeks of the relationship were over he completely stopped trying to be social with you or any of your friends. He would just cling to you and say nothing but the occasional bitter complaint.
And he would make you feel SO guilty if you ever suggested anything like seperating, and all you could think was surely he’ll go back to normal soon? Back to the guy he still is around his friends?

My point is I need advice on someway I can warn other girls away from this guy! He made both me and this other girls life hell and now I find out he has no problem hitting women too!
I want to take action but I don’t know what I can do… should I just keep an eye on him and warn any girl he seems to be going out with?

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2 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

if you try to warn any girl they will not listen to you, infact they may find him more apealing because they think he will be different for them cause theyre much more special than some ex girlfriend.
The girl he dated before you should have laid charges, but since I’m assuming he didnt theres not much you can do about that, if you have any reason to lay charges then I’d suggest you do so, if not then just stay right away from him and anyone he may be dating, if you try to interfere you could be seen as a stalkerish ex and he could very well have you charged for interfering in his life
If he beats up on another girl I know its sad, but its her problem and hopefully she she have him charged
you cant spend the rest of your life watching him to be sure he doesnt hurt another

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