Love help: please help, i am 18 years old and i am currently at uni….however, i really ike my sisters best friend who is EXACTLY 3 years younger than i am! - Help.com

Its not legal.. keep chatting but wait a year…lol

yes but even then is it not a bit too much of an age gap??

alexhampson7 wrote:
yes but even then is it not a bit too much of an age gap??

at least its legal then and u cant be accused of anything..
3 years will be nothing later on.. but right now it is a bit much.
It could be a phase, you might find someone better suited… give it time seems the best option here. She needs to grow up a bit, and u need to figure out if u truely love her or have just made her into something she is not in your head..
Does she show signs she is into u?

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Three years becomes less of a gap as you get older, but at the moment you’re legal and she’s not. Simple as. That means if you let anything happen you go to jail for being a peadophile. So, patience and self-restraint are the words of the day here.

haha its not me, i was just querying the first reply….tbh, i think you should give it a few months and see ow you feel. if you feel the same try an d stay in touch and when you next see her ask her how she feels but try not to scare her off…if she doesnt feel the same she will tell your sister and that will open up a whole new set of problems so be careful

oh hahahhhaaha oops..
also agree with the sister thing… she might not take it well…. and u gotta listen to her for the rest of your life..

Does she show signs she is into u??

yeah she does, shes always flirting and it does nothing to help the situation! haha…problem is, i dont know whether she actually is flirting or whether shes just a bit flirty anyway

also, the sister thing….im not sure whther she’d be too botherd (if we wwere older)because shes aware that i talk to her quite a bit and she seems to actually like the fact that her brother and friend are mates

Just take it slow. Be her friend for a couple of years…
She is bound to have a crush on u, but always remember her age…. Down the track if u do ask her out… it might pay to give sis the heads up 1st.
Remember she isnt legal yet..
Good luck..

hmmmmm, im going to give it time i think. i saw her last night and we were getting along VERY well so it just complocates things more really…..im in a pickle! thanks anyway

You certainly are lol…
Be careful.
Self control is very important right now lol..
No problem I hope all goes well.
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