Love help: i’m in love with my best guy friend and want to let him knows my feeling but his said he’s in love with another girl. - Help.com



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i’m in love with my best guy friend and want to let him knows my feeling but his said he’s in love with another girl.

But this girl plays him like a fool and doesn’t like me. i don’t want to see him to be sorry and i want him to know i love him. what can i do?

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Keckers offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Eh.
Two choices.
You either wait or you move on.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Stop acting like a buddy and start acting like a potential girlfriend.

- quiet smiles
- longing glances
- laugh at everything he says
- incidental touching
- attractive clothes

- stop sharing all your innermost secrets, feelings and insecurities
- stop listening to all his innermost secrets, feelings and insecurities
- focus on being the best girlfriend he could want
- focus on his manly characteristics: risk-taking, planning, getting things done, physique

See “Mars and Venus on a Date” by John Gray.

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zippy_zycad offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i do all of that above, and he seems to feel the same way for me, everyone around us also says that he’s into me. but the problem is he’s still tell me he’s like that girl. that’s make me think that he’s not appreciate my loving or don’t want to hear that word from me. i still want to tell him my feeling but i’m scared that may take him away.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

If you treat him like you want to be a girlfriend then you expect to go on dates, not just sit around and chat. You’re probably way too available. If you want to find a dating partner, then make that your priority and stop hanging around this guy hoping he will take action. He has no need to because you are always there. See?

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