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ok i got a situation here!

lol. i like this guy very much and he likes me back, but he got a girlfriend that he is trying to get over with without hurting her to much. and that girl used to be my friend until i did the right thing by telling my friend she was getting cheated on and she got mad for no reason.plus this girl is a control freak, he cant even go see his friends that he know since he was 4y/o! he isnt allowed to has his own friends. so i need a solution, he is looking for a good way that isnt to hurtful to break up with her.can anybody help me?!

oh and plus my bestfriend likes him but she got a boyfriend, but it wouldnt be fair for her…i really dont know what to do :( i really really do like him! he makes me smile no matter what i can always forgive him and he makes butterflies fly :P

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Aren’t there other guys around? Is that the only guy where you live? There is no way you’re not going to hurt your ex friend if you end up hooking up with him. Even your friend with a boyfriend wants to hook up with him. He’s gotta be one hot player for all you girls to be wanting to be with him. That’s one lucky guy to have all the girls bidding for his affections.

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I agree with little nick. He’s already talking to you behind his girlfriend’s back. . . he could end up doing the same thing to you.

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cheer_4_life0 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

lol my ex friend betraided me tho. and she is really controling.she even tried to control me. he aint a player he is just really sweet and his self! and he got a good sense of humor so that helps.and yes there is other guys but most of them are ***holes and just play with your feelings,or are man *****!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

she knows we talk. but we are just friends. the liking part came up while playing truth or dare. i dont want to hurt anybody but im tired to be always left out. and for once im happy.i could just stay his friend,but he still wants to break up with her with out hurting her to much so i need a solution for that to

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Really? He’s not a player? He’s got you on a string, his girlfriend, and maybe your other girlfriend who has a boyfriend. He’s a player, trust me.

Are you that desperate to taste your ex friend’s slobber that you would actually going out with this guy? Why not tell your ex friend to kiss you directly and get it over with. Yuck!!!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

By the way, he’s playing with your feelings too.

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cheer_4_life0 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

dude your dumb lol

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

ok he might be a player but he is a good friend i want to keep. i dont care if i aint going out with him i just need something that can help him break up with her!

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