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i have been talking to this guy almost a month by e-mails and the phone.

we have been pretty good to each other. so finally we met in person for drinks.
i was abit drunk so i told him to go home first. he said he felt a bit guilty
but he did go. i texted him to thank for the night and he wrote me back to thank to me
for the great conversation.
he wasnt satisfied with his life so he kinda complained a lot about it.
i was trying to be a good listener even though it wasnt a good thing to talk on the first date.

3 days later, he e-mailed me to ask how has my weekend been. no questions at all,
it was so netural. and not mentioning getting together, either.

i dont mind seeing him again or not.
so i replied him the same way as he did. no questions and no suggetions at all.
so this would be it, right? as long as he hasnt answered me again yet,
this is the end of us. right?

even though he’s online on my msn, he doesnt talk to me.
i just want to make it clear that i am not taking anything wrong.

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branstonsap offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

just go with the flow! If you really like this person, initiate another meet-up or something. Otherwise, just go on with your life and see what happens later.

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hugme offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 9 minutes after post)

thanks! as long as i dont really care meeting up again or not
i dont think i would talk to him first. and i havent heard from him since.
i will just move on to another one. try to remember the movie, he’s not that into you!!

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