donation help: hi my name is zack w my father got killed last - Help.com

You and your mother need to find work that will pay your bills. Working 2 days a week will not make it no matter what. Go to your local command labor and get some temp work until you can find full time employment your mother can go with you and also find work. If it is as bad as you say then you need to do this Right away. I really doubt that anyone is going to be donating any money to help with this so its up to you to get it done. Hope this helps :-)

Check with social services for your mom and call the Veteran’s Administration (VA) in your area about your dad.

its sad but your best option may be to sell the house before it gets repossessed , that way you can buy a cheaper smaller house outright if you sold your house for enough money, or it will at least ensure you have enough rent money for a while until you find better work
what I’m worried about though is your future, will you be supporting your mother financially for the rest of her life, if so how do you intend to start a family of your own?

btw, could you please edit your post and take out some identifying details, like your name, your fathers DOD and place he died, there is enough information there for some nutjob to come along and start work on stealing your identity which will land you in a whole new bucket of crud

thanx, I’m just a worry wart and dont like to see people taken advantage of for their trusting nature :) u really dont need that now
anyway, if your mother cant work due to a mental disorder she would technically be considered disabled, does the government not have some kind of support for disabled people?
since the temp agencies and resume drops havnt been working well I would highly suggest picking up local work, print out a heap of flyers advertising cheap manual labour, gardening, lawn mowing, car washing
it wont bring in a full pay packet but it will help and it will get you and your story out into the community, this will be very beneficial to finding a full time job , I know alot of people find good jobs doing this, there are alot of people out there and you may just stumble across one who sees you willingness to work and offer you full time work in their company

it never helps to ask for donations, people arnt as charitable as we like to think, if they felt for you like that they would have found a way to five you more working hours

you could try explaining to your boss that you really do need extra income and if he cant provide the hours maybe he’s in the know of where you can get better hours and put in a good word for you if youve been a valuable worker

Hi again, Social Services could probably get you help getting Social Security insurance for your mom. This may help to pay the bills. Seek some help for yourself, maybe there is some grief support groups in your area. These groups will be made up of other people who have experienced loss. Check the yellow pages for grief or family counseling…call someone and ask if they know of free support type groups. Ask your boss for more hours or some overtime…explain your situation to your boss before or after work and tell him that you are having to support your mom who is not dealing well with the death of your father and is experiencing some mental health issues because of the death so you really need to work more hours to support your family and mother.