ex wants me to sign a joint placment form for the children.

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ex wants me to sign a joint placment form for the children.

what are the stipulations to me signing this. we seperated a couple of months ago and he’s very concerned that i need to sign this asap

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~willard~ 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Consult an attorney that deals with this type of thing. You dont want to sign anything that can backfire on you and make it impossible for the kids. I would honestly go see an attorney…

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linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Never rush legal docs.

Go see a family lawyer. The important thing a family lawyer can do is (a) use his/her judgment to tell you what is fair and reasonable; (b) look at the exact wording of the document (regardless of anyone saying it is “standard” that doesn’t mean anything).

The lawyer should examine your goals and compare them to the document and help you work out what’s best for you and the kids.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

See a lawyer; but be very very careful to remain as impartial with your judgment over the kids as you possibly can. They are his kids as well as they are yours and your children will not be to happy when they are older when they find out you kept them away from their father. Make sure the lawyer understands your goals are to be as fair as possible, not for you to be the victor over custody with the kids. Some lawyers will automatically assume that you want them to win the best for you and the least for the other party, because in most causes that is the proper thing for them to do; this is not so with custodial matters.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Sorry to hear about your situation, it can be very painful and beleive me, I know.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

Talk to a Shyster, erm, I mean lawyer.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 12 minutes after post)

LOL thanks. i want things to be fair between us and the children. what i sign i dont want to be something i regret. If it’s about money which i gather it is, he has told me that he doesn’t feel that he should have to pay if he has 50% custody. Im just not sure how this works. I will talk to a Shyster. Just to see what they have to say.

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The Clue 16 #
Minot, ND, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (18 hours, 3 minutes after post)

If they live with him for 6 months then you have to pay him child support just as he has to pay you for the other 6 months when they are with you. Just remember they are both of your children and you will have to deal with each other until the children become adults. Hope this helps :-)

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