My guy friend just asked me out but I really don’t like

Stella816

My guy friend just asked me out but I really don’t

like him that way and I said “lets just be friends” but now my crush isn’t giving me all the attention that he was before I got asked out. Im thinking he doesn’t like me anymore or he’s thinking im taken now and I think should give up but deep down i know he really likes me. What should I do??? Or better, what would YOU do???

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BlindOptimism 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I would probably stay silent, and spend the next few months trying to convince myself that I didn’t like my crush that much really.

But thats not what you want to do. Well, at least, I assume not. You need to find a way to spend some more time with your crush, and then flirt with him :)

Stella816 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

yeah im already hanging around him after school but i still haven’t talked to him….should i start out for asking him for a dollar? lol and then coming back later to pay him back? hah

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lynnsayhelp 6 #
US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

The guy, should definitely ask out the girl. But, I’m assuming you know how to flirt, so just be suggestive that you like him. Say that he looks nice and how you ‘love’ spending time with him. If he doesn’t say anything he is either afraid, or doesn’t like you that way, so just recognize that. So if you really like him, you can still be friends.

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BlindOptimism 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

That’s not a bad idea, its a good way to start a conversation, and gives you an excuse to see him the next day as well. If you tell him you want to buy something nearby, he might walk with you to the shops. Then you pounce ;)

Stella816 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

well what I’m saying is that i think that my crush heard that my guy friend is asking me out……….

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Stella816 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

yeah thats actually a really good idea i might do that!

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BlindOptimism 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Good luck:)

Stella816 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

thanks a bunch! :D

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Tell the guy you like “well, since you ain’t asking me, somebody else had to. When are you going to ask me out?” And move your head side to side like you have an attitude.

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Stella816 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

haha! but the thing is, i’ve never ever talked to him except for a few times when i like someone else and didnt realize how gorgeous he is lol i dont think i want to be aggressive but thats a really good idea

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