Everyone is different. Some people are scared so they act like they dont care. Others have to fit in. Others just are born fake, they cant do anything about it. Other want to seem different than they are to have more friends. There really are a lot of reasons why people act fake. Something negative happened to you?
Why do you allow yourself to believe it IS all fake?
Woah thats deep :) i think for the first couple its because they want to be seen as nice, they know that smiling at someone that they dont like is good and they hope that theyre friends will think that they are a better person becausse of it… I didnt really explain that very well. They want to be seen as a person, they dont want to be honest because honesty hurts, everyone thinks that its better to be fake rather than to give the truth, it will make the person that they are smiling comforting and talking to feel better even though it is a fakeness and will not last…
about the second half of your post, i would say for some of them its to fit in, with the clothes and attitudes and stuff its all about looking and acting like the next person not standing out and stuff…
Thats bout all i can think of :)
I think mums hit the nail on the head here :)
i guess most of people just living their life just seeking love, even if they don’t admit it but they really deep want to be loved accepted may be they think that they cant be loved as they are so they hide may be change their look but it’s hard to make a real deep change.
why they pretend to be some thing they r not (be cool while you r not)? it is only matter of acceptance, i mean an accepted geek between his friends and people will be more comfortable than a normal in a new town or school.
but about people that act like they do care may be they are really trying or they just act polite to be accepted.
i know sometimes it gets all twisted up when everybody be somebody else but the only thing that u can do is take it simple, believe them until the contrary is proven.
thanks this post is’nt for me personaly its for an english essay i could pick from these words fake , popularity ,love,religon so i picked fake thinking i wold be an easy essay topic but i was wrong i reall didnt understand what i ws suppose to rwrite about so i emailed my teacher and i found out that all the choices were to follow back to school how people react to these chocies and what some people go though to be accepted.but thanks i guess my paper is done though :)
people act fake because otherwise theyll feel vulnerable. So in order for certain people to feel less ashamed of things they put on an act. or in order to feel important they put on a show for themself or for an audience to watch. It makes the mfeel good, or it just gets them through..Everyone is fake to a Degree but some people go krazy with it. I think if your havin ga good time and making others around you feel good they its not Fake.but if your doing it and trying to be as someone else its not originally who you are.So there is only one person like you, be yourself, love yourself, and do what you can to live in this world and be at peace.
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i’ve caught myself acting”fake” and sometimes deal with this. But as long as you are creating yourself and being the awesome,fun,intelligent, confident,and calm person that you are there is no reason to be fake.Be yourself, and dont change it for anyone.If you come into conflict wit hany person because your Not fake or whatever the csae may be just deal with it calmly and dont allow that other person to place you in a tough spot and get a reaction out of you.Be the goofy person as you always are, thats what i tell myself.You should never change yourself for anyone.I tell myself positive lies or truths in the mirror everyday and blow it up and say things like you are funny,awesome and a good freind to have. stuff liek that..and i watch comics on tv.Those are the REAL people
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Well in my personal opinion I kinda have to agree with emz95 about being truthful. Most people will be nice instead of honest thinking that it won’t hurt that person. Wich I feel is a bit contradicting because if you don’t like that person then why worry how they feel?? Maybe because if “the truth” be told its not that you don’t like them at all! (I hope I can explain this right!! ) It very well maybe that it’s something about yourself that you don’t like and you are just centering it on that person in order -not having to deal with it yourself!! I hope all can understand what I am saying. But for an example MY MOTHER!!! In all honesty she doesn’t think too much of her self. But I don’t think she wants to admit that (for some reason maybe she thinks it will make her look weak??? I don’t know she wants all to think she is alot stronger than she is) Anyhow, she will put me down, and knock me to alot of people and well alot of people see it and they agree that she will knock me and knock me in order to feel better about herself! I think its because if she puts someone down then it boost her up Know what I mean. I am not a know everything person but thats the way I see it!!
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being fake is exactly what everyone is writing. there is a woman that i work with that is so fake that it is sickening. i deal with it but it is very annoying. she flirts with all the men that comee in and seductively talks to them. she feels that she is above everyone and she has only been here for a couple of months.what suggestions do you have
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screw being fake.
we live in a fake society
when you cut off the guy on the highway, do u think he is going to be fake nice with you. i know i wouldnt
people are fake nice, because they basically are scared of what people will think and say about them, behind their back.
if someone is toxic, or annoys you, stay away from them. if you have no choice but to encounter them everyday, just keep it professional, slight smile, but really limit your words, and eye contact. try to keep a distance or walk away also if you are able. I know in certain work situations this might be hard.
but really fake nice, is very FAKE.
I know, we all want to be accepted, and their is nothing wrong with being NICE, if you really mean it. But dont fake, it, because i can tell the difference between a fake smile and a real, happy relaxed smile.
and if you really have to be direct, just tell that person directly, “stay away from me” most times they will. it could make the situation worse, but then thats life. You move on. you be CONFIDENT and STRONG inside, and dont take CRAP
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dude that was true.and every time i think of that my friend just goes into being a fake person.a day ago she told me she drived around the neighbor hood she’s 9 years old and i don’t by that,then she got mad that i didn’t belive her. what a fake.and she is ……………….not a true friend at all she’s bossy,get’s mad at every thing,she’s all way’s mean and always tell’s her parents EVERY thing.i can’t trust her at all.
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fake nice
everyone does it, why.
simple answer, its survival
to make it thru life, you have to kind of fake it.
if you are to much yourself and show a dislike toward someone, this can cause problems for you. its a common courtesy to be somewhat nice and friendly toward people in general.
a person could get killed, fired, lose their apartment, lose their employees, etc, if they are not fake nice to a certain degree. faking a smile is better than showing disgust. enemies can be made if you do not put on a show.
faking nice can sometimes turn into guinine nice, if done enough times
faking nice can also increase your self confidence also.
i know sometimes its hard to fake nice, but its a necessary survival skill in this game called life.
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