why do people act fake .
i will explain more in depth.why do they smile at u when they really dont like you . why do they laugh at your jokes if their not funny.why do they comfort you if they really dont care. why do they talk to you as if they care. why do they listen as if they want toreally help . another type of fake.why do they dress like they r someone else why do they talk like they have nothing to loose. why do they do the things they normally wouldnt do .why do people act like they are in love why do people act like they have never felt love?Why do sum live to hurt while others to stop it .
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Everyone is different. Some people are scared so they act like they dont care. Others have to fit in. Others just are born fake, they cant do anything about it. Other want to seem different than they are to have more friends. There really are a lot of reasons why people act fake. Something negative happened to you?
Why do you allow yourself to believe it IS all fake?
Woah thats deep :) i think for the first couple its because they want to be seen as nice, they know that smiling at someone that they dont like is good and they hope that theyre friends will think that they are a better person becausse of it… I didnt really explain that very well. They want to be seen as a person, they dont want to be honest because honesty hurts, everyone thinks that its better to be fake rather than to give the truth, it will make the person that they are smiling comforting and talking to feel better even though it is a fakeness and will not last…
about the second half of your post, i would say for some of them its to fit in, with the clothes and attitudes and stuff its all about looking and acting like the next person not standing out and stuff…
Thats bout all i can think of :)
I think mums hit the nail on the head here :)
i guess most of people just living their life just seeking love, even if they don’t admit it but they really deep want to be loved accepted may be they think that they cant be loved as they are so they hide may be change their look but it’s hard to make a real deep change.
why they pretend to be some thing they r not (be cool while you r not)? it is only matter of acceptance, i mean an accepted geek between his friends and people will be more comfortable than a normal in a new town or school.
but about people that act like they do care may be they are really trying or they just act polite to be accepted.
i know sometimes it gets all twisted up when everybody be somebody else but the only thing that u can do is take it simple, believe them until the contrary is proven.
thanks this post is’nt for me personaly its for an english essay i could pick from these words fake , popularity ,love,religon so i picked fake thinking i wold be an easy essay topic but i was wrong i reall didnt understand what i ws suppose to rwrite about so i emailed my teacher and i found out that all the choices were to follow back to school how people react to these chocies and what some people go though to be accepted.but thanks i guess my paper is done though :)
people act fake because otherwise theyll feel vulnerable. So in order for certain people to feel less ashamed of things they put on an act. or in order to feel important they put on a show for themself or for an audience to watch. It makes the mfeel good, or it just gets them through..Everyone is fake to a Degree but some people go krazy with it. I think if your havin ga good time and making others around you feel good they its not Fake.but if your doing it and trying to be as someone else its not originally who you are.So there is only one person like you, be yourself, love yourself, and do what you can to live in this world and be at peace.
i’ve caught myself acting”fake” and sometimes deal with this. But as long as you are creating yourself and being the awesome,fun,intelligent, confident,and calm person that you are there is no reason to be fake.Be yourself, and dont change it for anyone.If you come into conflict wit hany person because your Not fake or whatever the csae may be just deal with it calmly and dont allow that other person to place you in a tough spot and get a reaction out of you.Be the goofy person as you always are, thats what i tell myself.You should never change yourself for anyone.I tell myself positive lies or truths in the mirror everyday and blow it up and say things like you are funny,awesome and a good freind to have. stuff liek that..and i watch comics on tv.Those are the REAL people
Well in my personal opinion I kinda have to agree with emz95 about being truthful. Most people will be nice instead of honest thinking that it won’t hurt that person. Wich I feel is a bit contradicting because if you don’t like that person then why worry how they feel?? Maybe because if “the truth” be told its not that you don’t like them at all! (I hope I can explain this right!! ) It very well maybe that it’s something about yourself that you don’t like and you are just centering it on that person in order -not having to deal with it yourself!! I hope all can understand what I am saying. But for an example MY MOTHER!!! In all honesty she doesn’t think too much of her self. But I don’t think she wants to admit that (for some reason maybe she thinks it will make her look weak??? I don’t know she wants all to think she is alot stronger than she is) Anyhow, she will put me down, and knock me to alot of people and well alot of people see it and they agree that she will knock me and knock me in order to feel better about herself! I think its because if she puts someone down then it boost her up Know what I mean. I am not a know everything person but thats the way I see it!!
being fake is exactly what everyone is writing. there is a woman that i work with that is so fake that it is sickening. i deal with it but it is very annoying. she flirts with all the men that comee in and seductively talks to them. she feels that she is above everyone and she has only been here for a couple of months.what suggestions do you have
screw being fake.
we live in a fake society
when you cut off the guy on the highway, do u think he is going to be fake nice with you. i know i wouldnt
people are fake nice, because they basically are scared of what people will think and say about them, behind their back.
if someone is toxic, or annoys you, stay away from them. if you have no choice but to encounter them everyday, just keep it professional, slight smile, but really limit your words, and eye contact. try to keep a distance or walk away also if you are able. I know in certain work situations this might be hard.
but really fake nice, is very FAKE.
I know, we all want to be accepted, and their is nothing wrong with being NICE, if you really mean it. But dont fake, it, because i can tell the difference between a fake smile and a real, happy relaxed smile.
and if you really have to be direct, just tell that person directly, “stay away from me” most times they will. it could make the situation worse, but then thats life. You move on. you be CONFIDENT and STRONG inside, and dont take CRAP
dude that was true.and every time i think of that my friend just goes into being a fake person.a day ago she told me she drived around the neighbor hood she’s 9 years old and i don’t by that,then she got mad that i didn’t belive her. what a fake.and she is ……………….not a true friend at all she’s bossy,get’s mad at every thing,she’s all way’s mean and always tell’s her parents EVERY thing.i can’t trust her at all.
everyone does it, why.
simple answer, its survival
to make it thru life, you have to kind of fake it.
if you are to much yourself and show a dislike toward someone, this can cause problems for you. its a common courtesy to be somewhat nice and friendly toward people in general.
a person could get killed, fired, lose their apartment, lose their employees, etc, if they are not fake nice to a certain degree. faking a smile is better than showing disgust. enemies can be made if you do not put on a show.
faking nice can sometimes turn into guinine nice, if done enough times
faking nice can also increase your self confidence also.
i know sometimes its hard to fake nice, but its a necessary survival skill in this game called life.
being fake is nothing to be ashamed of.somepeople act fake cause they dont want others to know who they really are.it takes a lot to tell someone who you care about to tell them that that person is fake.but you dont have to be fake to fit in.to fit in you just have to be your self.
Because People Are Just Fake and have bi reason to be real
And why is your written English so bad?
I remember my mom was that way. whenever there were picnics or other get together situations, or i was tagging along as a little kid, her fake voice would come out. that always annoyed me. then all these people knew me, but I did not know them from Adam.
Myself, to this day, I have always been a very honest person. If you are not honest it only comes back and bites you. If people cannot handle the truth, that is their problem. I don’t feel I am being insensitive either, I am being straight forward. Don’t waste time, don’t play games, get to the point.
my two cents
I personally think people act fake. Some are born into it like i was reading above. Alot of peopel think it’s normal way of being. to me, I guess i just act like myself. I have a hard time adjusting to the fake way of acting or putting on a show or act. I’m not really one to do that. It takes a lot of work that I can’t accomplish. It literally is impossible for me because i have never really put on an act. maybe one or two days out of my life which is alot lesser then most peoples typical numbers. I think it’s okay because sooner, or later you’re going to choose whichever way is going to work best for you. You will choose to stay happy or be unhappy, your going to pick and select which way best suits and fits YOU. :) I think we all come from various backgrounds, and it doesn’t help when you grow up in a dysfunctional family(me),that’s been split up constantly.And have gone to 500 different schools and never was able to make freinds. And it just doesn’t matter!. You can pull every excuse out of the book and maybe you’re right on all those accounts. It’s hard either way, make life as you wish. try your best. your not going to fit in everywhere you go. Don’t try to fit into someone elses shoes. Everyones feet are shaped different and everything u get it. I will ask myself this alot of times. I notice that people are fake because they fear rejection. but, honestly I would much rather feel and experience the rejection because i have to be a bird out of the cage. I truly wish sometimes i was a people pleaser but, I dont think my life would have ever been so enjoyable. I notice im not very judgemental unlike other people maybe this is why. Because I dont spend my time screwing everything up that shouldn’t be tampered with. I think people don’t like the truth or to be found labeled as something so they keep trying new ways and tryign to work towards being loved and accepted. I personally have learned to space myself away from others because It leads to trouble for some reason. I think a lot of people who dont experience this rejection might feel thsi way inside(dont exactly know). I just think people are constantly at work and like being busy. It gives me a headache though. I like a simple life. I dont wish to make it complicated. You must do what works for you not, for everyone else even if it’;s unpopular. So if you find yourself reading this it probably means you should learn to accept yourself fully for who you’re right now and not for someone you are tryignto become. Because the truth is, is you should pursue happiness over knowledge or popularity. people only like rich people,goodlooking people,or something you can give them. Which is not abnormal even to people who are real in personality. They like the same things sure. but, just go through the motions and accept yourself and always give yourself self love. It doesnt matter what others think. You are the one you have to live with the rest of your life. sure be civil but, it doesnt mean you have to obey and agree with everything. Do what best fits for you. Try to have respect for fellow people. Everyone is in the same boat in a way so jsut chill out and stop creating fuss. We are here for 80 years and then we die and see god(i hope!). I pray every day for that anyhow. I just wanna keep the world as it is, because who knows if everyone was like me, this world would fall apart(you never know). just leave it as it is, because if god truly hated hated it he’d destroy it. Everyone has there purposes just gotta let it be. I don’t get along with alot of people even though i tell myself I do constantly some days. Its kind of done out of pressure. Just love your neighbors as yourself. Try to make your life good how u think is right. nobodys perceptions are the same.You ultimately have to treat gods people with respect, you dont have to necessarily hang out with them like some people think you have to. but since he likes them and loves them just do the same and be respectful. Dont shoot up the school because u dont agree etc. u get the point. You dont have to turn into a psycho because nobody has it easy, everyone is in thsi life together. nobody is special.
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