Love help: My boyfriend spends evenings with me but never during the weekends, he’s always with his mates. - Help.com

You’re not jealous.

Surely you’re working on weekdays? Which is why you’d rather have him come round on saturday instead of weekdays?
If so then I can see your point and you just need to talk to him.

Try to join in with his mates and him is a good idea.
You don’t need to drink if you don’t want to but at least it gets you involved with him much much more.

He might not have any courage, say if he gets drunk and you’re there, the next day he could be so embarrased, which is why he might not want you to come.

But tell him you’re fine with whatever they do as long as they don’t go incredibly off the wall. Which you are.

It was weird for me to seach on the internet bout this kind of problem. Girl I am going through the same thing and no matter I tried to convince myself to just let it go because i love him i just can’t have the piece of mind. we have had so many arguments becuase of my boyfriends drinking habit. For him, drinking in the best thing he can ever have. There are even times when i have to tell him, if you have got to choose between me and alcohol i think you will choose the bottle and not me. YOu see how worse that is, I wanted to spend time for him, more and more. We have different shifts, different day offs. And whenI mean different working hours, he finish work around 3 in the morning will be home at 4 and if i have the energy will wake up for an hour just to see and talk to him and then go to bed. It is very rare for him to do a morning shift which gives us time to spend more. I mean the entire evening and go to bed. I even know by heart the routine even he does not tell me. If we are on same track, have dinner spend 2 hour together, after that he needs to go and meet up with his friends and go for drink. Reason is after sometime he will not feel sleepy and I do so he would have to leave the house and drink, rather than sitting at home watching m sleep or watch tv until he does… I hated it so much…. I feel like i never had any privacy with him at all. But for him it’s just me not accepting his drinknig habit and making drama and runing at night eveytime he wants to go for a drink…. Worse is that he told me he will never change.We already broke up before as he felt he does not have his own life anymore. If i was very possessive before, now he decided to continue and fix our relationship I knowing had mistakes in the past tried my best to just leave him alone with his drinknig habit. the only thing is that i am not happy bout it. yes we spend time together however not the way I wanted to. it is making me so confused. everytime have to tell myself that if he wants to go i only have one answer which is yes. and like you he never asked me to come and be with his friends. As he said i hated him drinking meanning it is much better for me not to see him while doing so, to avoid problems and drama like i used to do. sometimes no matter how hard i cry and let hm understand what I feel it is still me who has to give up and he is not willing too. maybe i am afraid to loose him, however somehow i e said ham really getting annoyed to know it will be always be like this. he said as long as he gets the chance to drink he will, then i thought if you get it everyday he will be drinknig, spent time with me at some point and leave me again and come back home when it is time to drink…he even told me that no matter what he does, i am never gonna be happy as i wanted him 24/7. well all i want is for him to spend the entire day with me without leaving me and expect to wait till teh happy hour is done. it is more complex than what i have written. i would appreciate some comments.