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my boyfriend is having some problems…

he wants to leave me when i have already taken a stand for him infront of my family..he wanted me to leave the guy i was engaged..i did everything as he wnated me to do but he is saying he doesnt wana be with me anymore…im hell deppressed and hurt but the fact is i cant live without him..can somebody help me getting him back?????

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

What do you want us to do? I’m not sure we can help you. You left a guy you were engaged to, got your family against you for this guy, and this guy left you? How old are you, 12?

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Jennic offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

He doesn’t sound like he’s worth your time, to me. But I don’t know him- or you.
How long were you engaged for? Why did you get engaged in the first place?

Were those things that your current boyfriend asked you to do, things you wanted for yourself? You can’t just blame the way your life is turning out on other people. “Oh, well- He asked me to do it and I love him, so I did it” That’s not the way it works. Set some boundaries, have some self-respect. If you truly love someone you will be able to tell them when to back off an assert your boundaries. If they truly love you back, they will respect your boundaries and they wouldn’t ask you to ruin your life.

I’m sorry if that seems harsh or judgmental, Wasn’t trying to be either of the two. Hope everything turns out alright.

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