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Main street. Downtown. $50 bucks. Bring a condom.

Why so uptight my friend? Just trying to make you smile.

Don’t be like that.

Now, how old are you?

How long ago since you had your last girlfriend?

So you never had a girl????

Don’t you have anybody at school who might be wanting to get together with you? Don’t you have a best friend? A girl best friend?

Hi.. love will b just around the corner 4 u hun.. Most girls your age will b too shy to ask u out. Most wait for the guy to do the asking.

U havent missed much so far.. the relationships people have in their early to mid teens are not ones that usually last.

U still at school?
Learn to build friendships with girls first. Go to parties and chat to them.
Then once u have a girl who seems to open up to you, flit a little if u like her and watch her response.
Never be pushy or stalker like.
Start with a friendship and go from there.
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You need to let all the girls know that you are available. Believe me there’s somebody out there for you!

May be you need to be more outgoing? Are you really shy?

Don’t worry - my hubby was 23 and had never had a gf when he met me.

You need to get yourself into a position where you’ll be able to talk to a girl who suits you. Can you choose where to sit at school? Sit at a different table at lunch? Or better yet, join a club or group with a more limited number of people where you’ll get a chance to chat to different people.

Or you can do like my hubby did - get your cousin to set you up on a blind date :)

I know so badly how you feel.
I am 15 years old, never had a boyfriend, and I’m also looking for love like you.
And I’ll tell you something: I do have friends, I’m not ugly, and it’s not that I have fear to become someone’s girlfriend or something.
I felt in love a few times on High School, but most of the times I was too afraid of getting refuse that I didn’t tell them.
And when I did, the guys did not know what to do or how to react, because I was just too directly!
But now, after a half-year nót being in love on somebody, I noticed a guy on school, who had never took my attention. I mean: I had never seen him before.
But he’s is so cute! He doesn’t know me (yet), but I just feel so happy!

What I’m trying to say with this is you should look around you, and I’m sure there’s a change you’ll see a nice girl. [ or boy ;) ]
And even if you don’t fall in love with someone, go to your friends, do all that kinda stuff that let you feel great! Because your friends can give you love too, but in an other way. And not to forget your parents can!
Go ask them to play a game together, or go watch a film.
I’m pretty sure you will feel better if you’re hanging around your friends. Just make care you have some company. That’s a lot better then to mope on your room, alone, the whole day. Because that ís going to make you feel bad, and it might makes you wanna hate yourself, because ‘you would be ugly and stupid cause nobody wants you’.

HAVE FUN!

You’re a guy, I’m a girl, so our situations are a little bit different.
But the point is: Stop worry about it. One day

duuuuuude

cheer up! it’s not to be so sad because of that.

So, the thing you’re gonna do, is to take my advice =D

Since you said:

mbartels wrote:
thanks,
but every time i like a girl and talk to her she tells me that i’m a great guy and i will find someone but it never happens

So, why don’t you try to tell her that maybe you already found that someone? she will ask who do you mean. Tell her that you’re not gonna tell the name but you can describe that girl to her. (Believe me she will listen) Try to tell as more points of her own character as possible. If she’ll say that she has no idea who are you talking about, tell her “Oh and she doesn’t pay much attention to her points of character, although they are great” and then tell “and if you try to tell that girl her own points of character, she will reply that she has no idea who are you talking about”, and lastly, smile =D

And if she’ll ask “Is that me?” you can reply her “Oh and she can guess lots of complex things but always asks one more time, just to get sure =D”

If you want to be too direct, tell her you already found that girl and that she is the one who you been looking for.

Good Luck! =)

littlenick wrote:
Main street. Downtown. $50 bucks. Bring a condom.

lol

mbartels wrote:
17 years

No worries pal, i’m 17 and haven’t gotten that chance yet myself. Just gotta keep on waiting or get out and hit on chicks.