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Why would a girl say she likes you on friday.

Dissapears from the party you both are at on saturday, then comes to you place late saturday, says she likes you and wants to stay the night. after she just screwed some random guy ?

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plihet offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

why would you even care what a girl like that has to say?

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Im not sure. I suppose i like her too.

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

She would do that if she realized that she can do better. Mainly, you’re better. But apparently she had to screw the other guy to find that out :/

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Well then what should I do?

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yutrio offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

you’re such an idiot man! You’re willing to settle for second, third…umm, who knows how many other guys this girls has screwed! Have some self worth!

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Well shes sleeping on my bed atm, we didnt do anything she just passed out. so What now?

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (31 minutes after post)

it depends, if you like her too i’d suggest making it clear that if you’re to go out, you’re the only one she can screw. Bluntly.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Yeah, maybe. Im just not so sure. I basicly can either forget her and tell her to go away (with self worth) or I make it clear that Im the only guy. (Btw i would have been number 3, she just screwed number 4 and this is in like 3 weeks)

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Has she been hurt or something? In my experience if someone makes a girl feel like she’s worthless, or if she gets her heart broken, sometimes she acts out this way. I’m a girl bdw xD

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Im not sure, if she has she hasnt told me. What I do know is that the first guy was her first guy for everything, 3 weeks ago. She said she hasnt had much experience with relationships or anything like that. But neither have I so maybe Im just being too critical.

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (45 minutes after post)

She’s just acting out, i think she’l be a better girl (or girlfriend) in around two months or so. The first guy was her first for everything you say? That’s it.

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happy_mike offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (51 minutes after post)

Yeah, but im still unsure. Im still a virgin and when she told me that the guy tonight ment nothing (which doesnt make anything better) it hurt.

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (54 minutes after post)

You have to tell her that you care about her and leave it at that, you don’t have to ask her out for now. Tell her you care about her, and you respect her and you want to be someone important in her life and it hurts you when she hurts herself. She’ll get it.

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Jr. offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (58 minutes after post)

How do you know for sure that she is screwing around? she maybe just telling you that.

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happy_mike offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

darkscorpia wrote:
You have to tell her that you care about her and leave it at that, you don’t have to ask her out for now. Tell her you care about her, and you respect her and you want to be someone important in her life and it hurts you when she hurts herself. She’ll get it.

Yeah, im just new at this stuff so maybe im just stupid for asking.

Jr. wrote:
How do you know for sure that she is screwing around? she maybe just telling you that.

When we were at the party her pants were on right side out. she came here with them inside out. I asked her why. after a little while she then told me.

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Jr. offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

This girl sound like she is mixed up and confused. She doesn’t need another lover, what she needs is a friend, someone she can talk to. She sounds like she may have some serious issues.

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kaoticsnow offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

some people are open sexually, just because she screwed some random guy does not mean she has “feelings” for him. BUT this is also a key thing to notice about her, do you really want to be with someone who is that open? whats stopping her from continuing to be with outer guys should you hook up relationship wise with her?

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emma. offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 hours, 41 minutes after post)

please don’t know it. that girl is just one of the thousand ***** from this earth.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (3 hours, 42 minutes after post)

emma. wrote:
please don’t know it. that girl is just one of the thousand ***** from this earth.

you mean, please don’t do it? ;/

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happy_mike offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Should I just walk away, not telling her anything? or what?

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kaoticsnow offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

happy_mike wrote:
Should I just walk away, not telling her anything? or what?

Thats your choice, you could do that or just flat out tell her why, tell her your not sure you could trust someone that bounces from one person to the next so quickly.

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