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well first of all, how old are you? It’s imperative now-a-days to really date someone for a long period of time to get to know them inside and out. What about him moving to oklahoma or you going to illinois? I think the possibility of relocating and having a steady relationship for a lengthy period of time would be the best option right now.

well congrats first of all. you should be excited! if you love him and he loves you, its the right decision no matter all the other issues. dont worry, be happy!

I got married when I was 20 after only knowing the guy for 4 months. Second best thing I ever did in my life :)

ya how many years ago was that cell?? this girls situation sounds VERY risky. marriage is a huge decision not to be taken lightly. just be careful jpaschall

13 years ago :)

For me I know it was the right thing.

That’s so neat Cell…

Dr. Ralph wrote:
That’s so neat Cell…

yeah congrats man thats hard to do im happy for you :)

You live long distance and he asked you on the internet to marry him? Good grief. Why were you together “on and off” for three years? What was off? And why are you apart? And why does he ask such a big question over the Internet?

If any more warning alarms go off we’ll all go deaf.

linuxya wrote:
You live long distance and he asked you on the internet to marry him? Good grief. Why were you together “on and off” for three years? What was off? And why are you apart? And why does he ask such a big question over the Internet?

If any more warning alarms go off we’ll all go deaf.

fair enough, thats a little weird. but we dont know your situation the way you do jpashall. i say that if the emotional side is there and you are really in love go for it. and im not the type of person who is a romantic and watches a bunch of sappy movies or something like that haha i just feel like something like that is rare, dont waste it

Safe and alone is no fun. Nothing ventured nothing gained. That said, I believe marriage is for life and you need to be sure that is what you want.

Yeah I forgot to answer the question, this relationship sounds very strange. How much time have the two of you actually spent face to face? And again how old are you?

[quote linuxya]You live long distance and he asked you on the internet to marry him? Good grief. Why were you together “on and off” for three years? What was off? And why are you apart? And why does he ask such a big question over the Internet?

If any more warning alarms go off we’ll all go deaf.[/quote/]

I agree.

You know, those of you who are still alive after playing Russian Roulette or driving without seatbelts or whatever other risky thing it is you did… it doesn’t mean it’s a good thing. It means you were lucky. So advising other people to do it because you personally are OK is just bizarre.

If that was to me I totally disagree. Getting married young doesn’t equate to “playing Russian Roulette or driving without seatbelts”.

My sis got married when she was 18 and her bf was 19. They’ve been married for 10 years now.

The things that keep a marriage together are kindness and commitment.

Where are you people from?

Didnt you go to college or do something right out of high school before getting married/ knocked up?

Who got knocked up? That seems rather out of the blue?