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im really freaking scared right now.

im 16 and i might be pregnant
i had sex in august and i havent gotten my period since may,but that is normal for me.
recently ive been having back pain,but nothing else.
no morning sickness,no tender breast,no cramping or implantation bleeding.
im sooo scared to go get a pregnancy test,cuase i dont want to know the results.
if i am i dont know what ill do.
i know this my fualt.
so please no grief about using protection,ive got too much to worry about now.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 82 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

You need to know. NOW. You can’t pull the covers over your head and hide from this one… really this is what friends are for. Can’t you confide in anyone like the boy or a parent or someone at school? Do it today, please.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

well you should get tested anyways. you need to know for sure just in case cause the baby needs protection now if you plan on raising a healthy one (if you have one) you prbably dont, instead i think it may be a false pregnancy cause by stress, worry and the fear of being pregnant. it happens. women can think they are pregnant and then suddenly feel the symptoms.
get tested.
wait a while.
test again.
then figure course of actions.
and yes, next time use protection.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Being pregnant is not the end of the world. But dying if something goes wrong is. No period since May?? That’s not normal for anyone. You need to see a doctor right away.

Take a pregnancy test today (Sunday) and no matter what it says, see the doctor tomorrow.

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kaoticsnow offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

+1 for the find out vote, you need to know. Yes it will make things difficult if your pregnant but its not the end of the world. find out now so you can take care of it if you are pregnant.

And to stop stressing out if you are not.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

perhaps if you stop stressing so much you’ll get your period back.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

take from: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_adv…

Why do some women’s periods stop altogether (amenorrhoea)?

Periods can stop for a number of reasons. The most common are:

* pregnancy.
* premature menopause (this can affect women in their early twenties).
* weight loss.
* weight gain.
* some forms of medication including the contraceptive pill or injections.
* drug abuse.
* stress.
* hormonal imbalances such as an underactive thyroid gland or the overproduction of a hormone called prolactin.
* a condition called polycystic ovaries (see below) is a very common cause of irregular or absent periods.

The treatment suggested will depend upon the diagnosis. If you are uncertain as to why your periods have stopped, seek advice from your doctor. Investigation usually involves a blood test to measure the levels of various hormones in your body.

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jesseswife0 offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

Just take the test. Its simple. Why worry about something that might not even be happening, and even if you are pregnant and your not ready for a child(which by the way you shouldnt be having sex at all if your not ready to take care of a baby)then give your child up for adoption.

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nickolei88 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 13 hours after post)

just take the test. If u r pregnant… then u know and can get some help. If ur not, then ur one lucky girl. And next time… use birth control… and make sure he uses a condom.

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