My boyfriend’s roommate is a lesbian who has a massive crush on me and she’s trying to turn me against him, but the thing is its working. - Help.com

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My boyfriend’s roommate is a lesbian who has a massive crush on me and she’s trying to turn me against him, but the thing is its working.

Because my boyfriend and I are going through a kind of weird period where both of us kind of needed to find some space…
The thing is I was a lesbian as well and she knows it but for some reason this guy was the exception. And I really love him… but I’m worried because she’s the most manipulative person I’ve ever met and I can’t avoid her because she lives with him.

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My boyfriend’s roommate is a lesbian who has a massive crush on me and she’s trying to turn me against him, but the thing is its working.
Because my boyfriend and I are going through a kind of weird period where both of us kind of needed to find some space…
The thing is I’m a lesbian as well and she knows it but for some reason this guy was the exception. And I really love him… but I’m worried because she’s the most manipulative person I’ve ever met and I can’t avoid her because she lives with him.

Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Time to beg your boyfriend to move.

This girl seems like trouble. Not a nice person to try to break you up. Not someone you can trust.

Steer clear of her is my advice.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (35 minutes after post)

I think you need to resolve your sexuality issues.

It sounds to me like you’re not really ready for either relationship at the moment?

Give yourself time to figure out where you are at.

My advice would be to avoid both of them until you’ve resolved what you really want from life.

Good luck x

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daycar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (55 minutes after post)

You are not in love just looking for attention and she is giving it to you…Move on they are both not worth it.

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