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I don’t know..

This may sound stupid, I am only 15 after all, but the fact that i’ve always chose to have a lonely life, and the fact that i’ve always had an attatchment to somebody as soon as i got to secondary school.. But now theres only about 4 people i would want to ever speak to and im just tired of speaking to people and knowing people.. I just want to get away with people that understand where i’m coming from.. this all sounds stupid to me though.. but it’s all that’s going on in my head..

A few things about me…

- I Sleep talk ALOT.
- I sometimes get things wrong when speaking, eg. say wrong things, etc, always had it worse than the occasional ‘Mistake’.
- Friends have noticed i speak with little or no emotion in my voice.
- Some may say i have a “Heart of stone” as i do not really care about things that are wrong with people, apart from a few people who matter. I don’t want people thinking i’m just selfish, because at one point i would look out for everybody, but i decided to lock myself up about a year ago.

Thanks anyway, don’t know if these have anything to do with it.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Anxiety is wearing you out.

When you are relaxed, spending time with people energizes you. When you are anxious, spending time with people wears you out. I have a similar problem. I can have an hour meeting with someone then want to go home and nap. Or I can discuss things for 2.5 hours and feel energized.

Focus on coping with your anxiety. The best way to do that is to breath deeply and focus on the other person. Listen to what they are saying. Ask questions. Think of how you can help them. If you focus on yourself and what they think of you and what to say next, you will be exhausted.

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Anonymous edited this post 2 months ago. Read the previous text »

I don’t know.. This may sound stupid, I am only 15 after all, but the fact that i’ve always chose to have a lonely life, and the fact that i’ve always had an attatchment to somebody as soon as i got to secondary school.. But now theres only about 4 people i would want to ever speak to and im just tired of speaking to people and knowing people.. I just want to get away with people that understand where i’m coming from.. this all sounds stupid to me though.. but it’s all that’s going on in my head..

Anonymous edited this post 2 months ago. Read the previous text »

I don’t know.. This may sound stupid, I am only 15 after all, but the fact that i’ve always chose to have a lonely life, and the fact that i’ve always had an attatchment to somebody as soon as i got to secondary school.. But now theres only about 4 people i would want to ever speak to and im just tired of speaking to people and knowing people.. I just want to get away with people that understand where i’m coming from.. this all sounds stupid to me though.. but it’s all that’s going on in my head..

A few things about me…

- I Sleep talk ALOT.
- I sometimes get things wrong when speaking, eg. say wrong things, etc, always had it worse than the occasional ‘Mistake’.
- Friends have noticed i speak with little or no emotion in my voice.

Thanks anyway, don’t know if these have anything to do with it.

FallenWorld offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Thanks, if anyone else has any ideas, please post them

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