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Theres this girl who’s making my life hell.

Ive known her for years and i cant get rid of her! she lives on my street, if im friends with her she causes crap and if im not she does it more. No one ever takes my side because she used to be ill, so she can get away with anything and everything im so sick of it!

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grapefruit offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

laugh because its ok
she sounds like an evil manipulative creature
a good way to break up
is to become demanding
ask her to do things for you, and keep asking
until she goes away
and remember to laugh

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

tell her how u feel

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

She “gets away” with things because you let her.

If you don’t want to associate with her, you can say so politely, explain why, and simply spend all your time elsewhere and with other people.

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BamBamKid offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

i did that and then she started making up stuff about me and told school hu told the police

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

So you let her blackmail you into becoming her friend again?

She is bullying you.

Choose your path and stick to it.

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BamBamKid offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

easier said than done

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

This is where you learn how to deal with bullies. Do it now and it will serve you the rest of your life. You’ll discover you are a lot stronger than you thought.

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BamBamKid offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Thank You :)

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