I’ve tried to talk to my mom finally and it ended up in disaster.

*!MaryChan!*

I’ve tried to talk to my mom finally and it ended up in disaster.

I made her cry. I told her what i felt like. and she got mad and made me feel terrible. and im not going to apologize because that’s how i feel.

she jsut doesn’t realize, and i don’t know what to do now.

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linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

What did you tell her and why?

What did you expect to accomplish?

How did you expect her to feel and react to what you said?

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*!MaryChan!* 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I told her what i felt towards my brother- check older posts if you really want to know. because he’s being annoying.

I wanted her to at least understand how i felt.

Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

well… I understand how you feel about the apology, but will that increase the gap between you and your mom? I feel that we can apologize and still keep our honor and integrity in tack. I can easily apologize for hurting someone, and be sincere in that apology while at the same time making it clear I still feel the same way… I just don’t what them to feel hurt about how I feel. If they choose to be hurt about how I feel, then that is on them… no guilt should be felt, because it is their choice. You did something that should bring you closer to your mom. If your mom cannot see that there is not much more you can do.

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