If you broke up with someone - not because there were problems

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If you broke up with someone - not because there were

problems in the relationship, but because it was the right thing to do (they needed to figure their life out) and you’re still thinking about them 1.5 yrs and one relationship later - what would you do? I recently facebooked that I did want to stay in touch, no response.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You shouldn’t break up with someone because YOU thinks it’s right for THEM. I’ve done that before, and it’s screwy. Obviously you are still carrying this around with you, so you really should resolve it and do your best to get in contact with the person.

Help me with: If my girlfriend doesn’t call me, should I call her, or wait until she calls?

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2 months ago (37 minutes after post)

I agree, contact him. Maybe he didn’t check his facebook yet. Anyway, if he doesn’t respond, you can assume that he has moved on without you. Maybe it really hurt him when you dumped him, and he doesn’t care to go through that again. I really don’t know though. good luck.

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