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My wife played the hell outta me she got married to

me just because she wanted to get away from her parents then she had a child with me he is about 2 years old now. we just got divorced but now i found out she wanted divorce from me like year and half ago. im 24 years old she left me for her parents im okay with that but she been sleeping with me all that time when she wanted a divorce she didnt ask me that this is what she wants to do. her parents and her family trying to ruin my life they wanted me to go to jail or get caught so can get rid of me and now her brothers harrasing me. i have all the proofs against her parents like whatever they wanted to do to me in her own hand writting and text messages and email. it was all planned out from her parents but i relaly love my son and i dont know what to do. now she is using me to have my son so she can go out and do whatever she wanna do but when i say no you keep him she says that if i dont keep my kid with me im going to lose him. i wanna ask american govermant they have all kinds of law here for womans what is the rights for man. i still love my wife i wanna be with her but she always lied to me since the day we got married and now im about to lose my kid also now her parents are trying something else to me so i leave this place where i live but i dont want to because if i leave im going to lose my son and probably i might see him ever again and i cant go through this. her parents even try to kill me they paid money to somebody to shoot me or kill me but thx god never happened i want paryers and i want my son i want life or else i will die i know this for sure they are on my back 24 hours watching me her parents and her brother but i cant do anything cause if i do anything i can go to jail for that and i cant give up on my son either is there any body who can help me plz May god bless your families plz help me

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hughes.gra offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

What you need, I’m afraid, is a divorce. The reason is that a divorce decree granted by the court will spell out exactly your rights and responsibilities as a father. Provided you have no arrest record, are gainfully employed, and otherwise a good citizen, you should come away with joint custody. It is also possible that you could win custody if you can prove she is an unfit mother. That is more difficult.

In any event, a divorce will at least provide you with a legal framework. As for your wife, perhaps in time you will reconcile, but don’t count on it. She seems incredibly immature and it sounds like there are other issues going on here that you do not articulate. That said, grant her the divorce, and win with it the backing of the court to see your child, live in the general vicinity and understand your rights.

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