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my ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend.

I feel sort of jealous, just that i never knew that he’d find somebody from school and start dating again…. its really awkward to see him with somebody else. i dont want him or anything. just that i feel kind of shaken up by it. is that normal to feel like this?

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Its normal =)
don’t worry most people get jealous… strange feeling huh? I felt it before. I bet you feel strange and different. The feeling can’t be explained by me sorry

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Legion offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 60 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (1 hour after post)

All do respect,

He’s your EX. I understand it feels odd though, but you’re gonna have to get over it, you can’t hold on to someone you can’t have anymore.

Goodluck.

“Oh and it should only last a month or so, so you’ll be fine.”

Legion.

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2 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

it sucks, but only ’till you find someone else yourself. then he’ll get to feel that way.

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arianna. offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (8 hours, 3 minutes after post)

It is perfectly normal,everyone has felt this before..I have too.
If you start dating someone you are interested in,you will forget about this and it won’t make you that jealous anymore…maybe not at all!Good luck though!

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (11 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Split em up! its gotta mean something, i mean you must like him in someway, i feel the same as you do, im in the same situation. if i was you split them up and make her look like the bad one, then *confort* him when he needs it ;) lol

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jackiem offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (13 hours, 10 minutes after post)

you feel jealous. It means you still have feelings for him. Otherwise you would feel numb. When you say you don’t want him or anything, do you mean it? Ask yourself again and be honest with yourself. If your answer is a real”No”, then you will find out that the “jealous feeling” will go away fast. If it is a “yes”, then you have more work to do. You have to be very honest with yourself when answering the question though(I know sometime it can be confusing. Try this, if he doesn’t have the new girlfriend, would you still want him?)

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tastyburger13 offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (15 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Having feelings for him doesn’t mean anything really. its more like leftover feelings. The longer the relationship, the harder it will be. But give it time and keep yourself open and your mind on other things and it will pass.

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lonelyhandsomeboy200 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (1 month after post)

i am gonna okey anyway.i know it’s tough though.feel jealous a little bit,of course.

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