please read and help..im 19 i left fl march 2008 when
i was 18 because alot was going on so i moved to nj to meet a friend then ny in may 2008 to meet this person i been talking to since 2007 and finally see them in person as we talked about knowing my situation i moved in that day with him his mother and sister eventually started a relationship it ended 6 months later in november which was the day he told me he loved me. we continued to work things out did everything the same as if we were still a couple but in march 2009 i went back to fl cause things got real bad between us due to trust issues and things that happen we kept talking while i was gone and decided we wanted to give it another shot so i came back april 29 2009 yet one problem his mother changed her mind about me for whatever reason not allowing me to live with them mind you me and her were very close i helped cook clean we worked together i was there when her mother passed away and helped paid for the burial cost is helped pay for anything she said she would adopt me knowing my life history and situation so her response left me in disbelif her not wanting me with her son. regardless me and him remained together but i went to a shelter and still in one getting myself together while he does the same yet me and him had a another breakup this july yet still act as a couple and close as usual no one else in the picture except the child which was conceived in may yes im 5 months pregnant and his mother doesnt know. me and him both want this child we are in love and love one another dearly but times are difficult he is dealing with so much hurt and confusion from school to family issues seeing me sick due to the pregnancy and social life and im stressed from seeing him hurt and my own issues. what do you think i should do to help or comfort him bring him back close to me as far as the relationship and emotionally and how or when should we tell his mother me and his relationship was good he never physically or emotionally hurt me he treated me just as good as i treated him we are open with one another he told me today he needs time which is something ive heard from him and understand why i feel the same.
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