I’m so over feeling like a loser with no friends.
It’s the school holidays at the moment and my dad is over visiting from Uk. I’ve spent my entire holidays waiting in the car while he looks in antique stores. I come home at night and my older sister Tabby has a selection of her 3 million friends over. Even my younger siblings have their bratty little mates over practically every night. And I sit in my bedroom on the computer and cry. I kind of do have friends. I thought I did anyway. None of them want to do anything. They are all too busy with their boyfriends or just don’t really want to see just me. I’m just over all this. I hate feeling like no one likes me at all. And no one has noticed that I’m down all the time. My dad just chucks money at me and thinks it will fix everything. And I kind of feel like my sister purposly makes me feel excluded. So yeah I’ve tried to organize **** to do. And it hasn’t worked. I don’t know. Just want to feel happy again. I want someone. And not nec assarily a boyfriend or girlfriend. I just want a friend.
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i get you. i soooo get you.
i have friends but i feel im not good enough for them so we never do stuff together.
so every day im at home dawdling around doing nothing sitting on my laptop til early hours of the morning
im happy to add you to msn if you like. im a great listener and i never judge becaus my life is far from perfect
I know how you fell im kinda in the same boat.
but heh you know what,im at the point where im sitting in a back seat watching peoples lives instead of just feeling sorry for myself,im playing a game.
and you know what…i LIKE it.with friends come problems..and i dont mean having friends is a bad thing lol.i got friends.less than i used to right enough.but i got no time for em.theyll always be there none the less.these are my good friends the ones thatll be there throughout my whole life.they know what im like and they inderstand it.
I don’t understand you at all Raplin. Your reply just confuses me :P
Thanks LLG, it’s nice to talk to people in the same situation. But I’m sure you know how different online friends are and how real friends are great because you know they like you for who you really are.
i confuse a lot of people dont worry about it :P
what seems fine in my head is completely a load of fish paste to anyone else :)
corse.
i find im able to open to people online than i amface to face.
just know i sympathise with you even if its silightly differnt, and if you do ever need to talk you know how to find me
at least you can tottaly be yourself online too. XD
well, you can totally come up here and hang out with me if ya like. :)
all it does here is rain though =/
Thanks Courtz, I’d love to :P We had plenty of rain in Nelly latley too.
Anyone got any ideas to make stuff bettttter?
always rains here too lol
SCOTLAND forever(with sun please) :)
am i the only one with sun!?
australia or western aus is sunnnyyy atm.
looks like it LLG lucky you!!
PollyinLove wrote:
Anyone got any ideas to make stuff bettttter?
Put on some headphones turn up the volume and listen to this tune itll give a temerory feel good fix :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blN3Ar…
Thanks, but I didn’t actually like it :(
:( lol i suck
Joking?
raplin wrote:
:( lol i suck
obviosly..i try to help people but i need so much help myself how can i possibly be any help
One of the problems with Help…It’s the people who need help, helping each other…
indeed, almost seems like in theory wed all be going round in circles
well, it seems to me, you either need to get some new friends, or make your friends do stuff with you. tell them how you feel. that it sucks your holidays are being boring as because theyre more interested in their bfs-and if they were any kind of friends they would make time for you.
how bout lil black sambo, get him round and make him bake you a cake
pack your stuff and meet me in america well go on a road trip and see where life takes us.Lifes really is too short to be calculated and theoretical about every decision we make.were all gona die in the end…no matter what…we will all die.why not just do whatever the hell makes you happiest while your here
I guess Samm is part of the reason for the post actually cortz. He really doesn’t want to see me at all. Hopefully he won’t read this. Meh course he won’t. I cna’t exactly force them to hang out with me. I did just tell one of them on MSN how I feel. Her reply was saying ‘Aww meee tooooo! Man I have bad period cramps. My boyfriend only ever talks about money.’ I guess in theory it would be nice to make new friends. I have no idea how to do that though. I should stop being such a *****…That might help.
I somewhat understand what you’re going through. It’s a phase which all of us go through at some point of time.. You feel often that no-one is around and there’s nothing to do, but in all honesty, there always is.
If you have a bit of faith in God, then know that there are always bad times before good, and there is always darkness before the sun comes up. Hope this helps.
:)
Hi :)
I’m not sure if ur holidays are over. But this method may help in your daily life. Perhaps you could try to think of the positive aspects of the individuals who are around you and think about them everyday - or before you interact with them. This may help to make you more inline with their positive side… Thus making them more interesting for you - and they may subconsciously pick this up and thus also want to reflect and reciprocate the interest that you are showing to them. And hopefully they will therefore want to spend more quality time with you.
Good Luck PollyinLove!
I hope this helps, :)
i know how it feels. when i was in junior high, i have like 6 best friends, we’re close. like every weekend i a wonderful time. but now everything is just like never happened. my friends are starting to busy all the time with their high school friend( btw i’m in 10th grade) and suddenly i realize that ‘friends’ that i had back then didnt deserve to be called friend. sorry if this doesnt anwer your question but i just wanna share the same feeling here with you
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