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raplin offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I would stay with someone who wanted to travel but probably cos i would travel with them..
But…what i wouldnt do is get mad if they gop without me.especially if i was supposed to save to go and never bothered.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Me yes, but that’s me. Everyone is different. People have to feel secure about themselves to allow their partner such freedom. Many people “say” they are that secure, but when tested we find something all together different. Your boyfriend is telling you right up front he is not secure; that’s pretty telling to me. I have to wonder what an insecure guy truly has to offer a partnership?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (7 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I think I’d like to be asked to come along, but I’m enough of a home-body to say, no, you go I’ll be ok here, if indeed I didn’t really want to go. Now, too much separation is difficult at best and I don’t think should happen. That means someone needs to take a break in traveling or someone needs to step up and do more traveling. But Joy you’re not talking about huge amounts of travel anyway - 3 times a year? That’s noting.

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Joy. offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (20 hours, 6 minutes after post)

He doesnt even attempt to save him money. I literally have no idea where it all goes. He lived with me and my parents and doesnt pay any bills, owns his car, and gets a $500 check every week.

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Joy. edited this post 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

Would you stay with someone who loved to travel?

I plan on going to greece next summer on a college tour group thing (all college kids) and I really want my boyfriend to go with me, but he hasnt been saving to pay for himself to go and I allready have the money I need to pay for myself to go, and I just know that I am going to get h*ll when I come back from him accuseing me of cheating on him in greece or w/e but he has said things like “if you go to without me im going to be so mad” and I keep saying back” if you brake up with me for going to greece when i wanted you to go and you just wouldnt save your money then I dont want to be with you anyway”

I plan on starting to go regularly on these trips(they only have these trips during summer,new years, and spring brake) so were talking 3 possible trips a year

So im wondering say your partner loved to travel and wanted you to come with, but you woudnt be able to, would you stay with someone who went on trips alone max 3 times a year

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