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What do you think?

I was seeing this guy…really just hanging out for the past month. I thought everything was mellow and then all of a sudden he told me he couldn’t have a girlfriend because he just wasn’t in the right place in his life for it. I was taken aback because I didn’t think I had been pressuring him into a relationship. He said he really liked me but just couldn’t do it right now. I said it was fine and I understood. Anyway he called me a few days later and left me an insanely long voicemail telling me he was sorry but he just couldn’t be in a relationship right now…basically saying everything he had already said to me. He sounded really stressed about it and asked for me to call him back and talk to him about it. I didn’t. I just sent him a text and said not to worry, that it was all good. I just didn’t really want to deal with it. Anyway, do you think that was cold and mean of me? I haven’t heard from him since (it’s been about 4 days).

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Jr. offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Well, if you really never cared for the guy then I say, no you are not being insensitive. On the other side, if you have true feelings for him, then yea, you are being insensitive. Call him to see what’s really wrong.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

hmm ask god

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

You put him in his place and basically gave him a taste of his own medicine. If he expected any other reaction, he shouldn’t have. He got exactly what he gave.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 53 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 2 minutes after post)

It was fine.

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