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rant rant rant raaaant.
theres sort of a question at the end
ok, so i had the worst crush on a guy for almost 3 years. i just couldn’t stop liking him, my feelings kept getting stronger and wouldn’t go away. over the summer i made the really hard decision to cut off all contact with him (we’re friends, but had grown apart recently because he became antisocial). i was just so tired of liking him, and feeling so heartbroken because he doesn’t like me back (i told him how i felt, and he said he didn’t feel the same way)
now… i don’t know how i feel. its not the same as it was before the summer, i don’t feel as passionately as i did. but… i really think it’s still there under the surface. i swear, if he flirts with me or gives the slightest hint i’m going to LOSE it and go right back where i was.
i really hate that i can’t let this go, i know this is getting me nowhere, and that we’re better off as just friends. i can’t even see myself going out with him now. but.. its just not going away.
what should i do? i really want to move on, and i’m hardly talking to him now as it is (obviously our friendship kind of died over the summer). should i keep going with the not talking thing, or try and be friends again? i’m worried if i do i’ll start really liking him again
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