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How can life be more exciting?

Tips, Ideas, Ways, Inputs please?!

Life is a gift, everyday a blessing, but how can one put an added zest or excitement over it? Thanks in advance.

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cvl12345 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I have been trying to do the things I think I cannot do but I want to do if I was better. That has made my life quite exciting so far.

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Yeah. I did that too. Made a move about the guy I liked, but just got me confused in the end. Could you be more particular please?

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cvl12345 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Great, you made the move. Wasn’t it exciting? Why are you confused now?

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 738 #
GB | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

hey sis, thankyou for the compliment, means a lot

how you keeping these days, we havnt had a gab in ages :)

mmm, exciting lol!
you already know whats going thru my mind ;D

what about sky diving?
anything that involves getting the adrenalin going??

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Be spontaneous!
Move location!
Life is more exciting if u have a future goal u r heading towards.
Its about remembering the big picture but living each day like its special.
The power of now! Is exciting.

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 738 #
GB | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

ive just remembered something not as extreme
when i want to jazz things up a bit
i play my music full belt&dance like a lunatic round house! :D

i find it very exciting , as my neighbours start yelling thru the walls lol!

well , you know what they say “if you cant beat em, join em” ;D

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

angie:)evansent wrote:
hey sis, thankyou for the compliment, means a lot

how you keeping these days, we havnt had a gab in ages :)

mmm, exciting lol!
you already know whats going thru my mind ;D

what about sky diving?
anything that involves getting the adrenalin going??

yay! i love my life, don’t want to take the risk skydiving entails. i’d rather fall deeply, crazily in love =) idk angie, i am confused with the guy i like!

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

ameliaearthlin wrote:
Be spontaneous!
Move location!
Life is more exciting if u have a future goal u r heading towards.
Its about remembering the big picture but living each day like its special.
The power of now! Is exciting.

correct! i am taking life day after day, really.
i shifted career/ jobs; bought a new car; slim/lose weight. taken my move on the special guy, but idk! i am confused. how u know if he’s into u or not =(

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

cvl12345 wrote:
Great, you made the move. Wasn’t it exciting? Why are you confused now?

yah it was exciting, what had brought me smile, also brought me pain. i am confused cause idk his feelings for me =(

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Hes younger than u isnt he hunny?
Bet hes shy as and doesn’t believe you could really b into him.
How do u usually communicate with him? facebook? phone? txt?

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ameliad offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (17 hours, 2 minutes after post)

okei, I would say making a move on a guy is a really exciting thing to do! Yep, it gets confusing trying to figure out if he’s into you, but the chase is sometimes the best part, so make the most of that.

What sort of move did you make on him? Was it as forward as inviting him out, or more subtle, like asking for his number or something? I’ve found that the bigger the risk the easier it is to tell if they like you (but it can be a bit scary - or exciting - taking that risk, can’t it?). Still, enjoy the moments you have with him now and nothing can take the niceness of it away :)

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 25 minutes after post)

ya, i must admit the chase is the best part. the challenge of it. anyway, he’s an inspiration, but i guess i must likewise be patient =) i did make some moves, laid my feelings on the line (subtly), it’s now his turn. if he decided that he doesn’t want anything to do w/ me (even just a friend) that’s absolutely fine. life goes on. at least it lessens my what if’s in life. rather than doing nothing but wait in vain.

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ameliad offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

I agree wholeheartedly! At least if you make a move you know you’ve tried, the ball is in his court and if it’s subtle then you can try again without feeling too risky about it ;)

I’m sure he’d at least want to be friends…and make sure you use that inspiration while you’ve got it!!

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

this time he won’t reply my texts! hahah! ended b4 it hardly began. heheh! anyway, there are many fishes in the ocean, might as well try my like to some other fish or shark maybe hahah! =) life is simply amazing, it has its own peculiar way of unfolding things, of which i am still thankful for =) thanks!

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ameliad offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

Ah, I know what that feeling is like! The guy I’m interested in at work won’t reply to my texts either, but he has been sending me emails saying “I’ll be in training all day, but I’ll probably see you before our meeting next week”, then next email “see you tomorrow”…so definitely feeling like there are mixed signals there. Some people feel weird communicating one way (like text), but comfortable with others. Just see how it pans out okei! :)

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 week after post)

thanks. i am okay now, past infatuation/ obsession stage. not hoping nor sighing this time =)

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