My boyfriend and I are together for 6 months today.

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My boyfriend and I are together for 6 months today.

I think he only mentioned it last night cause I reminded him a few hours before. Today he hasn’t called me or something and I’m kind of moody cause it’s a bit special to me. And I get moody a lot lately over his actions. He probably goes out with his friends tonight , he didn’t tell me what he will do or something. I always make time for him, but lately I feel like he doesnt really understand what a relationship means. I pay more for him. He goes home or cancels dates whenever he likes to cause he’s tired or something. He never brings me on saturdays and I feel second place. What should I do? call him today? or ignore him?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

ignore him. wait for him to call/ ask u out

Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Is the day over with? Maybe he has something special planned for later, or maybe not. Some people don’t think of 6 months as being a milestone. I think that many people consider a milestone to be a year, so don’t be worried if he does nothing. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care.

Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Does your boyfriend make you happy?

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Dr. Ralph 70 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Sounds like he doesn’t care to me. Obviously he is not putting your feelings first. He is much more concerned with himself maybe your anniversary (today) is a good time to talk about it. If you want to be treated better you will have to make a stand or he will continue to do what he has been doing, which to me seems like he is pretending he is single on Saturdays and having a girlfriend only when it is convenient for him.

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confusedgirl 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

To be honest 6 months isn’t really classed as an officail anniversary date - the big one is usually a year.

However that aside, you don’t come across as being happy with this boy. Why don’t you concentrate on going out with your friends and having fun rather than sitting in wondering why he hasn’t called - I’ve been in that situation before and it’s really not good to sit at home checking your phone every 5 minutes.

Get out there and have fun, either he’ll realise what he’s missing out on with you and buck up his ideas or you’ll realise that you can’t be in a relationship with someone you’re not happy with and you’ll move on and meet someone else.

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