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Me and my fiancee have been engaged for a year and two months…

. he broke with me a week ago and i cry every time i see him,hear his name, voice, or a song we shared, anything that reminds me of him…. i can’t read,listen to the radio or write because it makes me think of him and i break down… i see him on a regular basis at school so i cry every day…. i have tried talking to him and he says he still loves me but he can’t have a relationship rights now and in two years he’s going to the army and he wont be back till he’s 45? i would fallow him anywhere and wait on him for how ever long. he promises he will come back after high school but i am afraid he’s lying and that makes me cry even more.
i cry so much that under my eyes the skin is getting raw and bleeding, i am taking meds for it but i jut need to talk to someone who understands how i feel. i love him!!

How do i get better?
How do i stop crying?

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Keckers offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Um.
I’m a tad bit rude I know.
But that is possibly the most epic spelling of fiancee in the history of ever.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

How old is he? 16? He has some weird ideas about the army. He can’t have a relationship with you because he is going to join the army in 2 years? I have a feeling this is your first true love and it will end badly for you. This is probably a good thing. Get over him and get on with life, the sooner you realize he is already gone the sooner you will realize he wasn’t worth having after all…

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chastineperkins0 offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Dr.Ralph..I’ve been told that… yeah he’s 16 and no it isn’t my first love… my second. the first i was forced to get over, but i can see whre you are coming from

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Me and my feonciee have been engaged for a year and two months…. he broke with me a week ago and i cry every time i see him,hear his name, voice, or a song we shared, anything that reminds me of him…. i can’t read,listen to the radio or write because it makes me think of him and i break down… i see him on a regular basis at school so i cry every day…. i have tried talking to him and he says he still loves me but he can’t have a relationship rights now and in two years he’s going to the army and he wont be back till he’s 45? i would fallow him anywhere and wait on him for how ever long. he promises he will come back after high school but i am afraid he’s lying and that makes me cry even more.
i cry so much that under my eyes the skin is getting raw and bleeding, i am taking meds for it but i jut need to talk to someone who understands how i feel. i love him!!

How do i get better?
How do i stop crying?

courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 40 minutes after post)

O_o youve been engaged to him since he was 14 1/2?
youre kids. kids dont get engaged or married. this is what happens when they do.
the first breakup sucks, its gonna hurt for a while.
but youre just a child, youre going to get through it, get over it, and move on. just keep lookin forward.

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