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What website is the best to find a job?

I have gone down throught the phone book where I live, and no one is hiring. I have also tried some websites, but they seem to be ineffective.

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nhhaic offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I am afraid of calling a helpline because I do not want my boyfriend to hear this conversation, or even see it.

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Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "depression, abuse, suicide" 2 months ago.

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ruidosa offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Try to find a job first. It will help you to be more independent. Then you’ll have to get out of that relationship, as it won’t get any better and you know it. One day you just need to move out not telling your partner your new address and making sure he won’t be able to find it out. The state of your relationship actually may be the reason why your parents took the kids: they just knew it wasn’t the right environment for rising them. And after you have your life sorted, call or write a letter to your parents telling them about all the changes in your life and asking to meet up with them to talk, if them would like to ( you need to improve your relationships with your parents first, as they are in charge of your kids) and afterwards ask them if they can bring their grandchindren along next time. I’m sure that they won’t mind it too much. Later you’ll be able to see your kinds more and more often and eventually take them out on your own, and finally your parents will trust you so much that they will let you to keep them. Hopefully this plan will work for you. Good luck to you and take care.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (39 minutes after post)

What part of the world do you live in?

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one.close.frin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

If you love your partner you have to do what is best for him, and that is to make sure he learns that abuse is not acceptable. If you have tried consulting with him about your problems and you cannot see them resolving, then you need to either call the police or leave him, whichever you feel is best.

While you are in, or running away from an abusive relationship you do not want to have your children around, be thankful they are safe and enjoy looking at their photographs. Find a way to rebuild your own life, so long as they are safe and well, don’t fight the situation until you are in a position to keep them safe and well yourself.

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beatricegalant offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (56 minutes after post)

I have to agree with one.close.frin. First and foremost! to do is to get out of that relationship and if it cannot be done otherwise, you must call the police and put a restraining order against him. Your parents gave you a favour in raising your kids in a safe environment. Imagine them living in an abusive home. The court took your children away because you have no income to support them, and you accept to live with someone who abuses you. Once you got rid of him, and found a job that you can prove you will be able to provide for them, you will get your children back.

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I have a lot of problems. I am currently in an abusive relationship(mentally and physically), and every time I try to leave, he won’t let me. I do not want to call the police on him becaue I still love him, but I do not want to be with him.

Another problem is I havn’t seen my two children in almost a year. My parents took my children away, and I don’t even know why. They won’t answer my calls, and when I tries to write them a letter, they never respond. They just send me pictures of my children without any information about how they are doing.

I lot my job, so I do not have the money to fight them in court, and I can’t stop thinking about what happened to the point I have nightmares of the hearing I had to go through. I love my children so much, and I can’t fighure out why my family did this to me. I have never done drugs, I have never abused my children, and I have aways done the best I could in raising them, but for some reason the judge ruled in their favor no matter how much evidence I had supporting me. The judge didn’t even take m evidence into consideration like he was paid off my my stepmother.

I have no money, and I feel trapped here on the verge of a breakdown. I do not know what to do. Please someone help me.

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "moneyless, abused, trapped" 2 months ago.

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