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is it bad to like someone 2 years younger than you?

? i’m a junoir in highschool and hes a freshman…he likes me and i’m not sure if i like him…is it bad…i want your opinoin…please help i want a lot of replies so have other people help with this question too…not just like 6-10 replies i want more than that please…and thank you.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

It’s not wrong if you like him too. That’s nothing new in this day and age.

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pretty091 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

true…its not wrong, if u find out if u really like him..then y not.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 197 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

You should be ashamed. That is abhorrent and wrong on all levels. Have you no shame?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 79 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

It is normal. It is good. It is exactly who you and he should be attracted to.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 79 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

They’re both teenagers… just don’t sleep with the janitor or teacher or dad’s friends or someone’s ten year old brother and you will be fine.

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

No not wrong.
my parents are 5 years apart
my grandparents are 7 years apart

I like a boy 2 years older than me.

Its normal.
Just don’t go out with someone like 11+ older than you. Or 11+ younger than you.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 79 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

My sister in law has a husband 6 years younger than she is. They have been married over ten years. In HS it is different. Even one years difference is a big deal if you are an older girl. Guys can date girls 3 years younger and it is cool. Strange how society sets the rules without saying a word. It is all about how others perceive the relationship and every area and city is different.

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twisterelite13 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:
You should be ashamed. That is abhorrent and wrong on all levels. Have you no shame?

wow that is just rude i’m only 16 why do you have to be so mean…

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 197 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Because sarcasm is never understood.

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twisterelite13 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 4 minutes after post)

well maybe you should put in there in astrics that you its sarcastically said..

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twisterelite13 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 5 minutes after post)

i need teenagers point of views adults will just say weird stuff or confuse me…

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 197 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 10 minutes after post)

I am a teenager. Presumptuous to assume otherwise.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 79 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

I am the adult that says weird stuff.

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twisterelite13 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 32 minutes after post)

can you get other people to help?

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 41 minutes after post)

I am 15 :D

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 197 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 45 minutes after post)

MyNameIS_CharloTTe wrote:
No not wrong.

Just don’t go out with someone like 11+ older than you. Or 11+ younger than you.

So, I’d be good for me to date a 25 year old, to dating a 5 year old?

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Demoriye offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

I like this girl shes 3 yrs apart from me im 14 shes 11 my mama and her mama has been best friends since they were in high school and i known her since i was 7 yrs old

CAN I DATE HER?

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Demoriye offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 54 minutes after post)

I like this girl were 3 yrs apart shes 11 and im 14 my mama and her mama have been best friends since high school and i known her since i was 7 yrs old an she was 4 yrs old

Can I date her?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 197 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 3 minutes after post)

11?

Call Chris Hansen.

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twisterelite13 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 9 minutes after post)

ok not helping me i need help not to get more quesitons like mine lol…sorry…demoriye…

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 14 minutes after post)

I really like this girl can sombody help me out i need som info

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Just pianoman~~~ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 67 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 17 minutes after post)

it’s kinda normal. Well, not normal, I mean it is a bit unique and it wouild be a bit unusual to some people, but there’s nothing wrong with it. Age is just a mark on people’s birth certificates. How you feel about somebody is all about maturity, not age

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 23 minutes after post)

thank u pianoman roxas~~~

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wishicandrawmanga offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Hiya. Dont worry okay? Its perfectly
Normal^^ if you have feelings for him then just
Ask him out or something! Hehe this is what i
Always tell myself, “age doesnt matter in love”
I went out with a guy 3 years older than me, it
Didnt matter at all. I dont see how it would be any different
For a girl. Oh and try not to think about what others may think.
Just go for it:)

have any other questions email me!^_^

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margaret.12 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

I don’t think it’s wrong
I’m a junior,and I’m talking to a sophomore
so that’s just a grade apart
but in age-wise,he turned 15 in August and I’m turning 17 in January
so that’s like 2 years apart,but I’m just trying not to think about it
It really doesn’t feel or seem like he’s younger
It all just feels the same,and yeah people may talk
but if you guys like eachother then why not?,it’s highschool
ahaa,take a chance(:
as long as he’s taller ahahah :P
I hoped I helped,cause I was having the same problem.

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bum11821 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

ha what a twat… its not wrong mate dont worry

Commander Ikari wrote:
You should be ashamed. That is abhorrent and wrong on all levels. Have you no shame?

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Just pianoman~~~ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 67 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

he was being sarcastic. Lighten up

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Demoriye offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

Thanks for helping me everybody

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alexandjane4eve offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (1 month after post)

theres nothing wrong with it, im a junior (16) and shes and 8th grader (14)

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Demoriye offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (1 month after post)

Thanks i havent talk to her in a month though

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