Love help: I am 20 years old and had been dating this girl for almost 2 years when i found out she had cheated on me on numerous occasions.

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I am 20 years old and had been dating this girl for almost 2 years when i found out she had cheated on me on numerous occasions.

For the last few months of the relationship i couldn’t trust her and things turned quite bitter. We broke up and quickly both of us went our separate ways. She started getting around a lot which still hurt me as i didnt really want to break up with her i felt i had to because of the things she had done and how many times she had. I moved on and started seeing someone else but a month or two down the line i realised how much my ex meant to me and i felt awful for it. For the sake of my girlfriend of the time i called things off as i couldnt bear how i felt about my ex. A few months down the line my ex and i are now really good friends. She still says she loves me but wants me just as a friend for now and wants to stay single and get with guys, i feel the same way but if im honest theres nothing i would want more than to be back with her again. We have kissed a few times and i want more yet she feels that she cant and has no reasons for this. Its confusing me and tearing me apart as part of me says shes just using me when she wants company yet i love her we have great times together and i know she really does love me.
If anyone can slightly understand help would be much appreciated. Thanks

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Barbyman 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Practice on other Women ..Maybe she wants you back after youre the Stud…

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

She doesn’t love you the way you need or want her to… and she never will… it’s unlikely you can remain friends so break away from her…. don’t use other women to make the pain go away… take some time to heal and then start living… that does not mean jumping into bed with every girl you meet… one day someone special will come along and you’ll get the relationship you so badly yearn for. Good luck.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

I know this is horrible… but.. she probably does love you but she’s young and doesn’t want to settle down… she wants to play the field and get out there. She must be one of those people who feels special having guys pay her attention. Those are her own issues and will bite her in the a$$ when it comes round to it.

Unfortunately its one of those situations where if you were 10 years older you’d be perfect for each other and most likely be together for a long time. But your not.. your 20, only just out of school and not yet familiar with a hard working life.

I’m not saying you should just get over her but I really don’t think its the situation thats going to last.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I have to say that it’s preety bad that she did that to you. Why would you want her back? Won’t you feel like you won’t be able to trust her, no matter what she tells you bc of all of her lies and bad deeds? You deserve better.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 58 minutes after post)

once a cheater always a cheater i know that is hard to realize but for experiance i know just be careful

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 4 minutes after post)

she weren’t worth it in the first place…forget her…

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