life help: I am 17 and a senior this year in high school, with no idea what college I want to go to, why, and what I want to do with the rest of my life. - Help.com



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I am 17 and a senior this year in high school, with no idea what college I want to go to, why, and what I want to do with the rest of my life.

I’ve been having these troubles since eighth grade when my high school asked me what I was planning to do. I have gone back and forth between a multitude of possibilities- artist, animator, veterinarian, writer, teacher, nurse, surgeon, you name it. I can’t make up my mind, and I have no clue what I’m going to college for. I do know that if I take a year or a few off I’ll probably not even go, but I don’t want to waste my parents’ money by rushing into college for no reason. I’m not even sure what the big deal about picking colleges is about. I don’t have a setting preference, and so far I’ve just been picking random, less expensive colleges to look at, and going with them. I have no idea where to start or what to do.
I’m not a horrible student, and I’m taking honors, with a GPA of ~3.6, (that could be better if I weren’t so undecided on my future) with my apparent strengths in writing, art and science, and my large weaknesses in math and history. Decently good at computers.. etcetcetc.
Any advice?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Have you spoke with a counselor to find out what you’re good at?

That should be your first step.

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kjdsa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I’m pretty sure he cringes at the sight of me in his office.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Then go on line. Here:

http://www.careervoyages.gov/

See what tickles your fancy.

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kjdsa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

well thank you. =)

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darkscorpia offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

kjdsa wrote:
I’m pretty sure he cringes at the sight of me in his office.

lol

Listen, i’m almost 18 and i didn’t figure out what i wanted to do until recently, and i’m still unsure! Honestly, i would recommend taking a year off, travelling a little and trying out a few odd jobs.. That way you get life experience and you get what you want to do.. i wish i had done that.. i changed colleges twice already.. (our school system is different then yours bdw, i started college when i was 15) So honestly, take your time.

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kjdsa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

helps to know i’m not the only indecisive person out there. =)
but you know, that isn’t a bad idea. trying odd jobs out here and there and traveling. thankyou!

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noideawhattosa offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 33 minutes after post)

I am 18 too and just recently sent in my preferences. I also have no clue really what im doing. When looking through the courses to study i focused on looking on the programs that had a variety of career options. I chose a bachelor of arts because it has many things in it that i enjoy, not necessarily what i want to do. i dont think lol. Its really nice because you choose 25 various minor subjects and the 1st year is only about narrowing your choices down. after the 2 years you pick 2 of those to major in. By then im sure you know what your interested in. You should find something broad like that, it will help alot

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