Relationships help: im 19 and my girlfriend dumped me yesterday, wed been going out

paulthelad2

im 19 and my girlfriend dumped me yesterday, wed been

going out for 6 weeks and it sound bad but i was madly in love with her we clicked strait away and she told me she loved me and everything was great. then 3 days ago we where at a party with a few friend and she seemed off with me all night and the next day. yesterday i was at work and she sent me a text saying that she didnt want a relationship and that she had alot going on at the momment, ive since found out that she hadnt been happy for two weeks and was only telling me she loved me to make me feel happy even though she told me she loved me before i said it to her for the first time, now im really confused and anrgy, i felt so bad that i cut my wrist with a razor earlier and i dont think i can cope with the pain.

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sabersaber 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Dude, I feel bad for you.
But don’t cut yourself.
She isn’t worth it.
No one who will do a text-message breakup is.
My advice?
Listen to music. Loud. Cry into a pillow if you have to. Get it out of your system, and move on with your life.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Im seriously not trying to be rude or judge, but it’s just an honest question….how does cutting your wrist help anything?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Hey Sweet Heart, please don’t hurt yourself!! :( You are right to be mad about it, but you have to stop thinking that slicing open your own skin and bleeding You know it doesn’t last and just causes you pain and will never fix things.
Close your eyes and take a deep breath and try to remember who you were before you ever knew her, relax and see yourself being that guy again but with a lesson you will take with you from this.
I want to know how you were fine before you ever met her and then in such a short time let her get under your skin like this? She was wrong to not tell you honestly what she felt, and when you opened up your heart to her she should have not let it go any further. But she is only human like yourself,and she may not know who she is yet and said and did things she did not think about before doing them. You are still so young and have so much to look forward to in life. There is a perfect lady for you who will love as much as you her, and one day when you meet her you understand the difference. You sound so kind and full of love, I am so sorry that she hurt you soul like that, it is always difficult to be in that place. But time really does heal and perspective is a wonderful thing to gain form this.
I am sending you a hug and telling you things will get better in time. :)

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