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VeryCuriousGeorgio
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My girlfriend just started talking to her ex again…

She just emailed him out of the blue and she won’t let me see her computer lately. We’ve been going out for about 5 months and they’ve been apart for 7. Should I be worried?

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thegodmothe offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Yes. If she emailed him out of the blue, then its because he was on her mind. She’s obviously got something to hide if she won’t let you see her computer.

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VeryCuriousGeorgio offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Do you think the ex is related to the hiding of the computer?

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Most likely. Talk to her about it.

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Dracut, MA, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

is she becoming more distant with you?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

The measure of one’s character is what they do when they are alone. If she has nothing to hide fine but when it becomes an issue for her to be open with you, you have a problem. Demand that she is honest with you and stop wasting your time if she really can not be honest with you. She and you need to have a real conversation soon as you can about her behavior, there is no reason that she should still be involved with a guy who she used to be with any longer when she is with you. Be glad that you found out at least, and can now address this issue with her. Get to the place where she is either willing to be open with you about everything, or you find out that this just a waste of time being with her.

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