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Mix Signals

Well, there’s this one guy that keeps sending me mix signals. He likes to tease me and tell me that I’m short, and things like that. But he’s also nice sometimes. At homecoming when my high heels were killing me, he offered to carry me. He let me use his mp3 player. And he gives some compliments to me, sometimes. Last friday, when I was trying to decide whether he likes me or not, he gave me the biggest mix signal so far. He asked if he could rest his head on my lap, which I responded yes.

I’ve had a little crush on him since the beginning of last school year. But that’s only because he’s cute. Now that I have a class with him and getting to know him, I think I’m starting to fall for him. But the thing is I have no idea if he likes me or not. And i don’t want to keep liking him if I don’t have a chance with him.

I’m so confused.

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

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Quite depressing.
Someone please help?

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

whoops. I meant to send those as invites.

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

Yes, help would be appreciated.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

aw, this is hard. I say he probably likes you and isnt sure how you feel about him, give it a bit more time and if more signals come forth, ask him how he feels about you, or send your own signals back

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 29 minutes after post)

he likes you, but hes nervous could be it. he might not want to move past just friends. if you like him, ask him out, then youll know

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