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just a rant.

so my girlfriend and i have been going out for about three months, and her dad (air force) got orders to move to texas in february, so we decided to just befriends as opposed to a long distance relationship, and that was that. then the next day came around, and she met up with me in the cafeteria, and we walked towards first period together, and she started holding my hand like we always did, and she started to kiss me like we always do when we get to my classroom.i dont want to breakup and have her not like me, but at the same time, i want to not be in a relationship with someone who will jerk me around. ill live withouit advice, but i could use some.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 60 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Well, it’s not Feb. yet.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 132 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

um…she probably thinks youre going to break up when she leaves, not 4 months beforehand

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Like Cell said, it’s not Feb. yet.
If it was me, I’d keep the relationship going. And decide a little bit before Feb.
By that time, you might change your mind about long distance relationship. Or maybe you would have already broke up with her.

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sbaruth offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

You know what…february is a long ways away still, the orders could change and also, if she means a lot to you, I would say to give her good times to remember you by because you’ve probably heard it before. if you love someone let them go and if they come back to you, they’re yours forever. it might not be complete fact, but it must have some truth in it or people would’ve stopped saying it by now. and I understand its hard to know somethings going to happen and pretend nothings wrong, but i have a feeling she doesn’t want to break up with you at all. and also, the relationship is still new, why not see how things play out?

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question_mark? offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

she decided to break up, not me

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