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i think i like him, :/

He’s a lad from my work we get on really well, and have been good mates, but recently i have been starting to like him more than as a friend. I find myself blushing when he hugs me and wanting to be with him as much as i can be, problem is he’s about 3 years older than me, i’m 17 he’s 20 so its a heck of a gap, plus i don’t want to screw up our friendship because its amazing :) he’s the best friend i have at the minuet and i need him for that.
Any tips on how to get over this? :/

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
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you’ll get over it eventually :)

i mean you like him right? I know you like him well enough to only like him as a friend to not ruin your friendship. (been there) Doesn’t really matter how old he is, plus 3 years is not that big of a gap. You can crush on him secretly.

If you don’t wanna screw up your friendship, don’t go out with him.
Leave him as a friend if you care about him that much.
But crushes go away i guess

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