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jesus, you only give us 4 minutes? i wasnt aware i was on some time limit here.
if youre going to hurt yourself, at least claim ownership of that, its your choice, not because of anything anyone here did or did not do.
sounds like youre going through something, or did something bad, idk, your post doesnt give much away. but death is most certainly not the answer to your problems, try talking them out here instead first. cant hurt, can it

agree, you got to give people a chance to read and respond! If you feel really bad ring the samaritans, might be good to talk it over with someone, I mean if you are set on it- it won’t make a difference anyway, so you could just humour us. And anyway, if you hurt the people you care about - as many of us do and have done, shouldn’t you leave it up to them to decide if they think they want to be with you? People who care about you tend to do so whatever, so maybe talk it over with them. It’s pretty obvious you are sorry for whatever happened.

Ok, have you talked to her about it? Told her how you feel? You are not worthless, millions of people tell secrets all thetime, people just seem to be unable to contain them! For just one thing you are not ruining her life, yes she will probably be pissed at you for awhile, but don’t back down, stay there and show you are willing to support her (though it may not b v nice for a while) and eventually she will realise this again. Don’t give in so easily!

k you posted whilst i was typing- she has said its ok, and stood up for you by doing this, so she is showing you how much she trusts you still. You just need to stand up for the two of you and face up to whatever has happened. If you don’t, she will have to face it alone, and facing anything alone is much harder. I don’t really know what is going on, but time passes and things get forgotten so stand up for yourself!

then if she doesnt even care, why do you?

That is nothing to worry about …look at David Letterman ..He screwed all of his employers because otherwise they got the sack. Now one of the Producers tried to make some extra money and poor David had to say sorry Mum ..