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Hey, please help me.

My friend copies my views and everything even my way of talking too. Now our group of friends have decided to have a bunk, becuase of some problem I cant go. My friend was really interested to go, but now that she knows i’m not going,she also refused.

I mean it’s ok to have your own decisions, you shouldn’t copy all the time. All my friends are blaming me that she isn’t going as well. I feel like i’m caught in a web and always have to watch my steps,so that she doesn’t copy me.

Please help.

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Estrella offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

Well, I would just confront her about it. It’s hardly your fault. Although some people say that imitation is the best form of flattery, I know it can be annoying. There’s a girl I know who used to do this, me and my friends told her and she said she hadn’t even noticed that she was doing it. She soon stopped it.

By the way, i’m editing spelling for you. :)

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hey help,its my friend,she copies my views and like sometimes everything,my way of talking too.please help and now,our gropu of friends have decided to have a bunk,becuase of some problem i cant come,she was so interested to go but now when she knows i m not coming,she also refused,hey help please,i mean its ok to have your decisions but not everytime u shud copy,all my frnds are blaming me that see because of you she is also not comeing,,i someimtes feel like i m caught in a web,,and always have to watch my steps,,so that she dont copy me..please help..and i know there are many spelling mistakes…

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 21 minutes after post)

I have a friend like that too.. it IS annoying but I never told them that. Usually what I do is I’ll find something that only they do and copy that and they will get the message.

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