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ok so ive been with my boyfriend around 4 months, when we were together i was always the how to put it, ‘wearing the trousers’.
He was always very in love and obsessive with me, this would have been great but i have a very ba habit of pushing things i love away from me to aviod being hurt. I ended up breaking it off with him after a stupid argument and as always he came running back crying ect asking for another chance, i dident see things working and said no. However a few days after he stopped answering my calls ect and saying he dident want to be together anymore because of the way i had been.. i realised how stupid i had been and tried to work things out, after 2 weeks he said he wanted me back. However in this time he had been meeting another girl. So we ended up sorting things out promising not to argue anymore ect. But now i am so paraniod about this other girl and him, he has told her he has a girlfriend now ect but still i carnt stop worrying about them seeing each other behind my back. Now also the roles seem to have reversed and it seems he is in control, i realise no one should be and i want things to be a 2 way thing but i feel like he thinks he can walk all over me now and i dont know what to do? do i let him to make up for the times i was nasty and controlive to show ive changed ? or do i stick to my guns and not be a push over? i dont want to loose him but i feel like things are slipping away from me and becoming more of a he does whatever he likes and its his way or the high way, like it was once with me.
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